I don’t know what I am having yet…

Hey guys! Do these look “gender neutral” enough to work with a girl or a boy? I’ve noticed most baby clothes you find in stores are EXTREMELY gendered and I don’t know what I’m having ugh! It’s not a bad thing necessarily but I am already 14 weeks and it is stressing me out not having anything ready. So I finally picked out some clothes…

These are varying sizes (nb-6mo) because idk how big they’ll be and I figure they can size into it later on. Now, some of these seem slightly gendered so tell me what you think. They are also all from goodwill 🫣

#babythrifthaul #newmom #help

2024/8/27 Edited to

... Read moreChoosing gender neutral baby clothes can be a challenge for expecting parents. Many stores tend to stock highly gendered options, leaving parents looking for a more inclusive approach. When selecting outfits, consider colors and patterns that appeal to everyone, like yellows, greens, or earthy tones. Additionally, clothing with simple designs will often provide more versatility as your baby grows. Look for second-hand options at thrift stores, which often have unique pieces that can fit any gender. Remember, baby clothes can be fun and functional at the same time. Hearing insights from other parents can also help ease your stress during this exciting yet overwhelming time. Don't hesitate to reach out in forums or parent groups for advice and recommendations!

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Looks more like baby boy clothes🙂

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honestly it doesn’t matter. my son was born first and my daughter is now fitting into some of his clothes. they’re just clothes and they’re so expensive. just get what you can. people will misgender your kids anyways (not in a bad way but)

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