This one hurts. Dad rejected me but I’m still here anyway hope he gets better soon he said he’s done fighting for me and he said get out my house he doesn’t want me here praying he will get better from drugs. He has so much hate in his heart for his family but not strangers he thinks he always right about anything. I love you any way Dad.

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... Read moreDealing with a parent's rejection, especially when combined with struggles like addiction, is one of the most challenging experiences anyone can face. It often brings a deep sense of hurt and confusion, but also moments of resilience and hope. When a father pushes away family and harbors anger, it’s important to remember that addiction changes behavior and feelings, making the person seem distant or harsh even if deep down they are in pain. From my own experience and others I’ve talked to, it’s crucial to maintain your own emotional health while continuing to care for your loved one from a distance. This means setting healthy boundaries to protect yourself but also offering compassion. Praying or hoping for your parent’s recovery can give you strength during dark times. The words from the OCR content, "I love you dad your the best dad I ever had... where ever you go I go I see you again pops," remind me that love often remains strong even when relationships are strained. Holding onto that love can be a guiding light towards healing. Engaging with support groups or therapy also helps many people navigate these complex emotions. Ultimately, surviving a parent’s rejection linked to addiction requires acceptance that change is a process. It’s important to keep hope alive — not just for them, but for yourself. Sharing your story and feelings, like this, can also bring unexpected comfort and connection with others who understand.

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