I’m broken. Someone I loved took their own life and I am having a hard time with it. I can’t deal, I’m scared, I’m sad, I’m broken, and I feel like I won’t ever be the same again. I don’t want to go on even though I have kids and a life to live for. How do I work through this pain and how do I keep moving forward??? I am so lost ☹️😭

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... Read moreLosing someone to suicide is one of the most devastating experiences a person can face, and processing such a loss often feels overwhelming and isolating. From my own journey of coping with this kind of grief, I’ve learned that healing is neither quick nor linear—it’s a gradual path filled with ups and downs. First and foremost, it’s important to acknowledge your feelings openly. The emotions you experience—fear, sadness, confusion, and even anger—are all natural responses to loss. Try not to suppress these feelings or judge yourself for them. Instead, allow yourself to feel, cry, and express your pain in safe spaces. Connecting with others who understand what you’re going through can provide immense comfort. Many find solace in support groups specifically for survivors of suicide loss, whether in person or online. Sharing stories and hearing how others have moved forward helps reduce the feeling of being lost and alone. For those worried about moving on, especially when caring for children, consider small, manageable goals daily. This could be as simple as getting outside for fresh air or creating new routines that offer structure. Remember, moving forward doesn’t mean forgetting the loved one who was lost—it means learning to live while honoring their memory. Self-care is vital during this time. Eating healthy, getting enough sleep, and engaging in gentle activities like meditation or nature walks can gradually restore your emotional strength. Professional counseling or therapy can be a valuable resource too, providing tools tailored to your unique experience. Finally, try to hold onto hope. While grief changes you, it does not define you forever. There is a path through the darkness toward a place where you can smile again, hold your children with peace, and find moments of joy amidst the sorrow. It takes time, courage, and support—but healing is possible.

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