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TO: the ones struggling in a bad environment

FROM: someone who was constantly counting down the years till i could escape my toxic house and toxic relationship

MAKE 2025 THE LAST YEAR

•get a stable source of income. bust ur ass and work as much as u can.

•put a huge percentage of ur paycheck into a HIGH YIELDS SAVINGS(ally/discover). be strict about not touching it. i did 70% savings while i lived with my parents since i had less expenses at the time. customize it to ur needs but the goal is to put as much as u can into savings.

•set a goal for how much money you’d like saved up for when u r on ur own. consider making a list of all the financial responsibilities u would have in the future.

-you don’t have to be stuck in an environment that’s killing u because no one’s coming to help. make a way out.

#happynewyears2025 #letschat #resolutions #mentalhealthawareness #financialfreedom

2025/1/1 Edited to

If you're feeling trapped in a toxic environment, it's crucial to take empowering steps towards financial stability and personal liberation. Start by focusing on generating a stable income. Work diligently to maximize your earnings; every effort counts towards your freedom. Consider allocating a significant portion of your income into high-yield savings accounts to build a financial cushion. Many successful individuals recommend saving 70% of your income when living with parents, where expenses are minimal. This strict saving routine paves the way for a more secure and independent future. Additionally, set clear financial goals to steer your savings plan. List your projected expenses when you eventually move out. Tackling these responsibilities head-on will prepare you for the transition and motivate you to save more. Remember, being stuck in a harmful environment is not the only option; proactive measures can lead you toward a life filled with opportunities and joy. Focus on your goals, surround yourself with supportive individuals, and make 2025 the year of change and growth. Embrace your autonomy and build the life you deserve.

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