I Stopped Wearing Lashes- My Testimony

I was literally addicted to lash extensions. My best-friend has her own lash business so I would get discounts for my sets. I went from classic, to hybrid, to a volume set . It got to the point where I would consistently keep them filled because I didn’t like how my eyes looked without them. Until July 2020, when God spoke to me about how they were blocking my vision & that my husband couldn’t recognize me with them on . God even told me about how my natural big eyes were already beautiful and that i didn’t need those enhancements. The very next day I scheduled an appointment with my friend and told her that I needed to take them off, I wanted to be obedient to God. After that it took me a while to get used to my natural face since the extensions had ripped most of my natural lashes. I had to start over using lash serums , and mascara became my bestfriend . Ever since then I have learned to embrace my natural lashes and I haven’t gone back since . It wouldn’t have happened without Jesus delivering me from them and giving me back my vision ❤️. P.S. I met my husband a year later ☺️

2024/4/2 Edited to

... Read moreLash extensions have become increasingly popular, often leading to dependency for many individuals. While they can enhance the appearance of eyes, there are several considerations for those contemplating their removal. Natural lashes often suffer from damage due to the weight and adhesive of extensions, resulting in breakage. Many users have found that transitioning back to natural lashes can require a period of adjustment, both emotionally and physically. This might include using nourishing products such as lash serums that promote growth and strength. It's also essential to understand that beauty is subjective; embracing natural features can lead to a more authentic self-image. In a world saturated with beauty standards, celebrating your unique attributes can be incredibly empowering. Those interested in making the switch should consult professionals to ensure proper care and maintenance of their natural lashes. Ultimately, the journey towards embracing natural beauty is personal and rewarding.

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You are so gorgeous without them!

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Sis.. I am struggling to get used to my natural lashes again!! What serums and mascara did you use?

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