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💔 You can fall for someone… and be Unaligned

You prayed together once—but compromised every time after.

You wanted God at the center—but ended up making excuses.

Let this be your reminder:

Godly love won’t require you to shrink, settle, or stay spiritually silent.

It requires alignment. Sacrifice. Surrender.

📖 2 Corinthians 6:14 – Do not be unequally yoked.

Drop a if this is your testimony.

Tag someone who needs this truth today.

#DMsAndDevotionals #FaithBasedHealing #GodlyRelationships #UnequallyYoked #lemon8faith

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