As a long-time fan of Neon Genesis Evangelion, I’ve often encountered debates about what counts as 'canon' within this intricate universe. Many argue over which character relationships or storylines truly reflect the official narrative, especially when it comes to fan-favorite pairings such as Asushin (Asuka x Shinji), Asumari (Asuka x Mari), and Kawoshin (Kaworu x Shinji). From my experience rewatching the original series, the End of Evangelion film, the Rebuild movies, and even the short films, it’s clear that Evangelion’s canon is intentionally fluid and somewhat ambiguous. Each iteration gives different emphasis to character interactions and themes. For example, Kaworu and Shinji’s rapport is unmistakably significant across versions, but the integration of Mari introduces fresh dynamics, while Asuka’s relationships evolve notably. What’s important is how these variations enrich the narrative rather than detract from it. Much like the creator’s intent, fans can appreciate the different layers each version adds to the characters and their stories. I personally found that accepting multiple versions as equally valid allowed me to enjoy Evangelion without getting stuck in endless debates about 'what’s canon.' It’s about embracing the storytelling complexity. If you're diving into these discussions, I recommend revisiting the full breadth of Evangelion media: the original series for foundational storylines, End of Evangelion for crucial closures and alternate perspectives, the Rebuild series for reimagined arcs, and the short films for added texture. This comprehensive approach provides the best insight into why debates around Asushin, Asumari, and Kawoshin continue and why no single interpretation should overshadow the others.