My betrayal list featuring books and THE Media

I just finished Julia Shaw's 'Evil: The Society of Humanity's Dark Side.' It was an intriguing book that merits attention because the author tackles vital themes that remain pertinent over time, such as the influence of media on our choices. However, with terms like 'evil' being so frequently used by outside sources, it can be hard to find a credible read. The book is inherently subjective and opinionated.

The text discusses topics like *trigger warning*, serial killers, animal cruelty, various abuses, suppressed psychological experiments due to corruption, and other unethical influences. Also explores how forensic psychology intersects with cybercrime, highlighting how corporations can be exploited or benefit from potential threats and influencers, while also risking the public's data.

But what if they are not evil? Then, everyone is, or as the author suggests, someone definitely perceives you as evil. The concept of evil is subjective, and the author dedicates considerable time to refuting the notion that people are inherently incapable of evil and that there are ways to explain anyone's evil.

As a researcher deeply interested in human behavior, I felt a sense of disappointment. The book suggested that evil doesn't exist, which I found hard to accept. I wanted to enjoy it, but as someone studying misinformation, morality, and the concept of being objectively wrong or evil, I couldn't fully engage with it.

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⭐️Overall rating: 3.5/5: You can read my review on Goodreads! Or if you're interested in learning about psychology let's connect!

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2025/10/15 Edited to

... Read moreAfter diving deep into Julia Shaw's 'Evil: The Science Behind Humanity's Dark Side,' I’ve been reflecting a lot on the nature of what we call 'evil' and how different fields try to make sense of it. While the book challenges us to rethink our assumptions, as a researcher, I felt there was more to explore, especially when considering the nuances of human behavior. One concept that frequently comes to mind when discussing the capacity for harm is the 'banality of evil,' a phrase coined by Hannah Arendt. It suggests that terrible acts aren't always committed by monsters, but often by ordinary people who simply fail to think critically or resist authority. This echoes Shaw's exploration of the subjective nature of evil, hinting that it’s less about an inherent trait and more about circumstances and choices. It makes you wonder, 'ARE YOU EVIL?' or are you simply a product of your environment, capable of both immense good and profound harm depending on the pressures around you? This leads me to consider the 'human capacity for evil' not as a fixed state, but as a potential influenced by various factors. Psychology offers us so many tools to understand this—from the impact of trauma and early childhood experiences to cognitive biases and the power of social influence. The book touches on fascinating areas like suppressed psychological experiments and how corporations can be exploited, highlighting how individual actions can have wider, sometimes unethical, ripple effects. It’s a stark reminder of the 'responsibility to fight social pressures like group pressure and bystander effects' that can lead seemingly good people down dark paths. Moreover, the media's role, as mentioned in the original review, is crucial in shaping our perception of 'evil.' Sensationalized stories often simplify complex psychological phenomena into clear-cut good vs. evil narratives, which can mislead and misinform. As someone studying misinformation, I find this particularly troubling. It’s vital to look beyond these surface-level interpretations and delve into the underlying psychological and sociological drivers of behavior, rather than simply labeling something as 'evil' and moving on. While Shaw focuses on the scientific and sociological, a broader perspective might also touch upon the symbolic. Thinking about works like Carl Jung's 'Man and His Symbols,' we see how concepts of darkness and shadow are deeply ingrained in the human psyche across cultures, representing the unconscious aspects of ourselves we might prefer to ignore. This isn't to say evil is a mystical force, but rather that our cultural and symbolic frameworks deeply influence how we perceive and react to harmful actions. Understanding these diverse perspectives helps us build a more complete picture, moving beyond simple definitions to truly grapple with humanity's darker side. This book acts as a great starting point for such a profound discussion, and I encourage anyone interested in psychology and human behavior to give it a read and form their own opinions.

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Ugh that sucks. I wonder if they meant that people are inherently good until they are taught evil. Like little kids are good.

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