POV: Struggling Grad Student

Ending the Lazy Girl Era: Lazy Girl Edition☺️

2023/10/2 Edited to

... Read moreAs a grad student, mastering time management is crucial. Consider starting your day with a nutritious breakfast like chia avocado toast to fuel your energy levels. Incorporating a productivity playlist can help maintain your focus during study sessions. It's also beneficial to prepare your outfit and work essentials the night before, minimizing morning stress. Additionally, maintaining personal grooming, such as keeping your brows threaded, can boost your confidence and readiness. Remember, even small 'baby steps' towards motivation can lead to significant changes in your routine. Stay committed, and you'll effectively navigate the stresses of grad school.

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