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What has been learned at 19 🌸🌟

Near our 20th birthday, we would like to write down the experiences of our 19-year-old in case they teach many or younger people who are going to college.

Studying 📕📚

We feel that this year we have to adjust our education a lot. Sometimes it makes us feel that we do not want to study anymore. Want to quit or have the idea that or this is not really our way. We are really stressed before every exam. It makes us really unhappy until it makes us think that we are stressed. Just do it fully. The exam is finished. Do not think too much. Which we feel that when we think like this, we can really let go. (P.S. Before the exam, we like to delete AIG. Because when we see friends write notes about the exam, we like Panic a lot. This really helps)

Friends in college. 👩🏻‍🦰👩🏼

We didn't feel very well when we went to college because of the taste that we didn't have any friends at that time. Even though we greeted a lot of friends, we never really met that friend. We didn't dare to talk to other people first. We were very scared. At first, our group of friends was very big. Until now, we only have one close friend. But we were very comfortable. So we thought that many friends, we can greet many friends. But in real life, we will meet friends who really match us. Friends at the university, we don't have to focus on quantity. Focus on quality will make us happier.

Finally, we want to say that everyone does not have to pay attention or care about many others. We are satisfied with our lives now, we are the happiest. Sometimes we are too interested in other people's lives, we are distressed. Just ask yourself if you are happy now. If you are not happy for what reason, then how to solve it is enough. I want everyone to enjoy life a lot. Because at the age of 19 or how old we can only have one year. Do not be too distressed, it will pass by itself.

# lemon 8 girl # lemon 8 girls # University life # Life experience # Experience

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