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4 Ways to enjoy motherhood as a sahm 🥰🤍

When I first became a SAHM I realized that it was a lot harder than I thought it would be.

Honestly at times questioned, wow Is this it? Is this how it’s supposed to feel?

But I was determined to believe that motherhood gets to feel good, and I get to feel good about myself, and my motherhood journey!

Here are some of the things that help me love motherhood as a sahm ✨

1. Romanticize my life: finding gratitude and enjoying the little moments in my life.

2. Finding a community: finding and building a community of like minded mamas.

3. Get ready for the day: getting ready for the day is a big one for me. When I look good, I feel good and when I feel good I am productive and also can show up as my highest self.

4. Finding things outside of being a mom to look forward too: this is a big one for me. I love being a mom but it’s not my whole identity to be able to be creative in other ways brings me joy!

Do you currently do any of these? Or which one are you excited to start doing? Was being a sahm and hat you expected to able at first!? I know lots of questions but curious to know what other mamas have to say!

#blackstayathomemom #blacksahm #stayathomemom #stayathomemama #selfcaretipsformoms #wellnesmama #thrivingmama #sahmlife #mindsetmama #sahmroutine

2023/4/7 Edited to

Motherhood can take many forms, and as a stay-at-home mom (SAHM), it's essential to find joy in your daily routine. One way to achieve this is through the practice of gratitude; taking time to appreciate the simple joys—like a child’s laughter or a sunny morning—can significantly enhance your outlook. Additionally, forming connections with other moms can provide the support you need. Online groups or local meet-ups centered around shared interests, like parenting and self-care, can create a sense of belonging and shared experiences which are vital during challenging times. Getting dressed and ready for the day instead of staying in pajamas can also boost your mood and productivity. It's amazing how a little self-care can increase your confidence! Lastly, it's vital to carve out time for yourself outside of motherhood. Pursuing hobbies, learning new skills, or indulging in activities that excite you can enrich your identity beyond being a mom. Remember, finding a balance between nurturing your children and yourself is key to enjoying motherhood more fully.

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tashaftercancer

Not a SAHM… but I’m a business owner and set my schedule where I only work 4 days a week, so home with my SONshine Fridays and all weekend and I too learned very quickly (though I imagine it’s more intense being home all week with Little’s… that I NEED to get ready for the day… night wear to day wear, a MUST🌻🙌🏽

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