A guide into a slow life still on social media

Here are some of my favorite forms of media I’ve consumed lately, feel free to save for if / when you’re trying to scroll more intentionally 🫶🏼

I have been trying more than ever lately to live more intentionally.

To scroll more intentionally.

To be more intentionally present - in conversation, in hobbies, even with my eating.

I have found myself doomscrolling countless times, for hours on end, and I never leave the session feeling better than when I sat down.

I do believe social media is a powerful and wonderful thing but it does have it’s negatives if we aren’t careful - limitless scrolling, accessible 24/7, creating quick dopamine fixes, hyper fixating on our bodies, lives, etc. in negative ways.

Social media has brought me the most wonderful opportunities, friends, and experiences but it also has caused me terrible views on myself, my life, etc. which is why I am trying to be more intentional on my consumption.

#intentionalliving #slowmornings #slowlife #embracevulnerability #substack

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2025/6/20 Edited to

... Read moreIt's amazing how much a simple shift in mindset can transform our daily routine, especially when it comes to navigating the digital world. Like many of you, I've battled the endless scroll, feeling drained rather than enriched. But I've learned that fostering a "slow life" doesn't mean abandoning social media entirely; it means being a slow social media user, an intentional curator of my digital experience. One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is the power of setting boundaries. Before, I’d grab my phone any time, anywhere. Now, I try to designate specific times for checking social media or consuming content. This simple act helps break the cycle of impulsive doomscrolling and gives me back control. I also ask myself, "Why am I opening this app right now?" If the answer isn't "to learn," "to connect," or "to be inspired," I often choose to put it down. This might sound rigid, but it actually creates more space for genuine relaxation and engagement in my personal life online. Curating your feed is another game-changer. Just like you'd declutter your physical space, it's essential to "de-influence" your digital one. I’ve spent time unfollowing accounts that trigger comparison or negativity, and actively seeking out slow living content creator accounts or pages focused on well-being, mindfulness, and practical skills. This way, when I do scroll, I'm greeted with content that genuinely adds value and contributes to a more whimsical and joyful outlook. Think about the themes from the OCR images: "De-Influencing Your Routine" and focusing on "Real, Rooted Wellness." It's about quality over quantity, always. Finding your own intentional media sources is an adventure! Beyond the specific recommendations in the main article (like the fantastic insights from Olivia Eve Shabo or deep dives into "Understanding Anxiety Trauma and Burnout in Your Nervous System"), consider what topics genuinely light you up. Is it learning about sustainable living, exploring new hobbies, or understanding complex ideas like "why time felt slower when we were kids"? Substack newsletters, niche podcasts, and educational YouTube channels are treasure troves for focused learning and inspiration. I've found that actively searching for content that aligns with my values, rather than passively consuming whatever pops up, helps me feel more "consistent with how much" I want to engage with my personal life online. This mindful approach extends beyond just what we consume; it shapes how we interact. Instead of mindlessly liking posts, I try to engage authentically, leaving thoughtful comments or sharing content that truly resonates. This shift turns social media from a passive consumption platform into a space for genuine connection and growth. It helps combat the feeling of being overwhelmed by the "epidemic of constant communication" by empowering us to choose our interactions. Ultimately, the goal isn’t to escape the digital world, but to inhabit it more wisely. By choosing media to consume instead of doomscrolling, we can reclaim our attention, reduce anxiety, and foster a deeper sense of well-being. It’s about creating an online ecosystem that supports a slower, richer, and more joyful life, both on and offline. Embrace the journey of discovery; your mind will thank you for it!

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can you recommend some creators or topics to follow on substack? I am trying to increase my time on there and I think these are wonderful recommendations. thank you❤️

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