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Seeking advice from others

Self-improvement does not always mean learning by yourself. Seeking advice from others is a shortcut to real progress because it opens up to different perspectives and experiences, allows us to see things we have never seen, and fixes bugs that may not be seen by ourselves. For example, if you are practicing presenting, asking your expert friends to listen and give advice will help you see small errors that can be improved immediately, making the next presentation a leap.

Opening up to advice is not an embarrassment, but an expression of intelligence and humility. Many successful people are all through learning from advice and error from others. Recognizing that we do not know everything and being brave to ask what we do not know is the beginning of infinite learning. Be brave to ask for advice from experienced people - teachers, colleagues, or even family - that advice will be a light guiding you to improve yourself further than you think.

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