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I was patient and sorry😹

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... Read more猫の「肉球周りの毛(足裏の指毛)」って、伸びてくるとフローリングで滑りやすくなったり、砂やゴミが絡んだりして気になりますよね。うちも気づいたらモサっとしていて、肉球が見えにくいくらいになっていました。 ■ まずは準備(ここで失敗しにくくなる) 私がやってよかったのは「切る前に環境を整える」こと。静かな部屋で、床よりも膝の上やテーブルの上の方が安定しました。明るいライトを当てると、毛と肉球の境目が見やすいです。 ■ 使った道具 ・ペット用の小さめバリカン or 先が丸いハサミ ・コーム(あれば) ・おやつ(終わったら“やたぁー♪”ってなるやつ) ※ハサミ派の場合は、肉球を絶対に切らないように「少しずつ」が鉄則です。 ■ カットの手順(うちのやり方) 1) まず前足1本だけ触って慣らす(いきなり全部やらない) 2) 肉球をやさしく「むぎゅ」と開く 3) はみ出している毛だけを、肉球の面と同じ高さくらいに整える 4) 1〜2分で区切って休憩 うちは途中で「まだかなぁ」「むっ」「あきちゃったあ」みたいな顔になるので、短時間で区切るのが一番うまくいきました。 ■ 嫌がる時のコツ ・寝起きやまったりタイムを狙う ・2人でやる(1人が優しく保定、1人がカット) ・無理に押さえつけない 「今日は片足だけでおしまいだよ」くらいの気持ちでやると、次回もやりやすいです。 ■ どれくらいの頻度で切る? うちは滑りやすそうになったり、肉球の間から毛がふわっと出てきたタイミングで整えています。だいたい数週間〜1か月くらいの間隔が目安でした(毛量や猫の生活環境で変わります)。 ■ 仕上げとご褒美 終わったらすぐ解放して、たくさん褒めておやつ。これをセットにすると「カット=嫌なだけじゃない」になりやすく、次回のハードルが下がりました。 自宅ケアは“短時間・少しずつ”が本当に大事。難しければ無理せずトリミングや動物病院に相談するのも安心です。

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