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Sometimes we are a little mean to ourselves.

Sometimes we are a little mean to ourselves.

When disappointed, repeat yourself

I'm tired. I can't rest.

When I'm not good at it, I forget to look back on how hard we tried.

Do you know...

Just being here, still breathing, still trying, even tired.

It's very good. 🫂

Don't forget you've been through something bad.

I've been here many times. I'm really good.

We didn't immediately speak to comfort her.

Just... want you to know that you're not alone.

And we always believed in her. 🩵

# Heal mind by corecraft ♪ Gradually # Can't rest

2025/6/30 Edited to

เมื่อเราผิดหวัง เรามักซ้ำเติมตัวเองมากเกินไป แทนที่จะให้กำลังใจตัวเอง ทุกคนมีช่วงเวลาที่ยากลำบาก การกลับมามองตรรกะและการเติบโตที่เกิดขึ้นในทุกๆ วันเป็นสิ่งสำคัญ ในช่วงเวลาที่รู้สึกท้อแท้ เราต้องระลึกถึงความสำเร็จเล็กน้อยที่พาเราไปสู่ที่ที่เราอยู่ในวันนี้ แม้จะเหนื่อยหรือรู้สึกไม่เก่ง แต่การที่เรายังคงมีลมหายใจ และยืนหยัดในการพยายามนั้นมันแสดงถึงความแข็งแกร่งแล้ว การให้กำลังใจตัวเองในยามที่รู้สึกแย่คือการเริ่มต้นให้กับการฟื้นฟูใจ อย่าลืมว่าเราไม่เคยอยู่คนเดียว มีคนที่เชื่อในตัวเราเสมอ และทุกการเดินทางมีค่า แค่ใช้เวลาให้เหมาะสมแล้วทุกอย่างจะดีขึ้นในที่สุด. คุณไม่จำเป็นต้องเร่งรีบ ทุกคนมีแนวทางของตัวเอง ให้โอกาสตัวเองได้พักผ่อนและเติมพลัง การสร้างพื้นที่ปลอดภัยให้อยู่กับตัวเองช่วยในการฟื้นฟูอารมณ์ได้ดี ลองแชร์ประสบการณ์นี้กับคนรอบข้าง แน่นอนว่าเราสามารถสร้างกำลังใจกันและกันได้ในช่วงเวลาที่ยากลำบาก.

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