A DECADE OF LIFE

🌟 a decade of teaching

🌟 (more than) a decade apart between me and my siblings

🌟 a decade of beach trips

🌟 a decade of coming out to friends and family members (tbc….)

🌟a decade of new hairstyles only to learn going natural feels the most authentic

🌟a decade of writing turned into two published books (and one on the way!)

🌟 a decade of pain after coming out led to rainbow after the storm— podcast ✔️ poetry in color winner ✔️

#decade #author #comingout #lessonslearned

2025/7/31 Edited to

... Read moreReflecting on a decade of life offers profound insight into personal growth and resilience. Starting with a decade of teaching, this period highlights the dedication and passion involved in educating others, laying a foundation for future achievements. The unique dynamic of a more than ten-year age gap between siblings reveals the evolving nature of family relationships over time. Seasonal beach trips, such as those spent summers in Wildwood, NJ, serve as meaningful anchors for memories that shape identity and emotional well-being. An important aspect of this decade is the challenging yet empowering journey of coming out to family and friends, which often involves pain but ultimately leads to self-acceptance and joy — symbolized here as a 'rainbow after the storm.' Embracing natural hairstyles after experimenting with various looks underscores a broader theme of authenticity and self-love. This physical transformation often parallels inner growth and confidence. Writing plays a central role in this narrative: two published books with a third forthcoming illustrate commitment to creative expression and sharing one's story. Winning a poetry contest and launching a personal podcast further emphasize the author's engagement with diverse platforms to connect with audiences and inspire others. Listeners are invited to explore the podcast episode "Say Yes to You," which likely expands on themes of self-discovery and empowerment. The author’s presence on a newsstand and work availability on Amazon highlight the professional milestones achieved during these ten years. Throughout the decade, key themes emerge such as education, family, courage in coming out, creative accomplishments, and finding authenticity through natural self-presentation. These experiences collectively enrich the author’s journey, offering valuable lessons on resilience, identity, and the power of embracing one’s true self.

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