how we have quality convos👌🏻TRY THIS GAME!🤓

I'm not usually a board or card games person. But ‘Abbey’, a question-based local card game, piqued my interest. Its goal to facilitate cosy, intentional conversations is something I'd get behind anytime.

And I had the chance to try it out with my friend group whom I've known for over 10 years. (Thank you team Abbey for sending over the deck!) To my surprise (or not), I found that there were still things to learn about each other.

Tldr; the questions in the card deck easily lead to hours of long conversations, and they’re mostly open-ended. If you like card games similar to ‘We’re not really strangers’, it’s likely that you’ll enjoy this too. I guess a word to describe it….would be ‘wholesome’?

With no winners or losers, players take turns to ask each others questions from their hand, which later build a path in front of them. Akin to Uno, there are 'action cards' which allow evasion of questions. We found ourselves not needing these, with the game lulling us all into deep, reflective connection. The open-ended questions made follow-up questions easy. The session easily lasted over 4 hours, and left us feeling heard, connected, and closer.

If you’re looking for a fun, engaging game for group gatherings, I’d highly recommend checking this out. The game retails for $35 at abbeylabel.com, with a recommended group size of 2-8. Have fun! ☁️

#friendship #GirlTalk #RealTalk #cardgames #games #dinnerideas #groupactivities #adulting #friends #BeReal

2024/6/30 Edited to

... Read moreIf you’re curious about how to make the most out of 'Abbey,' here are some tips from my experience. Each player starts with five cards, and the key is to take turns choosing a card to ask another player. This approach keeps everyone involved and promotes deeper sharing. The deck includes 'action cards' similar to Uno, which let you skip questions if needed, but my group found these unnecessary as the questions naturally led to genuine dialogue. I particularly liked how 'Abbey' encourages follow-up questions. It’s not just about answering but about connecting on a personal level. For example, one poignant question asked about dreams once held dear but since let go of, which sparked a heart-to-heart discussion between my friends and me. This type of interaction helped us discover new layers of our friendships even after knowing each other for years. Playing 'Abbey' over dinner or casual gatherings turns an ordinary night into a memorable bonding experience. The game supports groups from 2 to 8 players and retails for $35 at abbeylabel.com, making it an affordable investment in quality time. Whether for friends or couples, it’s an excellent way to deepen relationships beyond surface-level chatter. Don’t forget to create a comfortable space and be patient — letting conversations flow naturally makes the experience all the more meaningful. Overall, if you’re seeking a memorable, wholesome game that prioritizes connection over competition, 'Abbey' is well worth trying. It’s my go-to recommendation for anyone looking to enrich their social gatherings with authentic, thoughtful exchanges.

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