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Stop being a good person (and you will be very happy)🥰

♪ Playing too many good people, sometimes life rotts

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Try to stand up and defend yourself. Sometimes others are disgruntled, but they will give him away. Don't talk, don't tell each other to the person who did. Finally, come to press down later. Often, the more you lose your individuality.

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Be a clear person who dares to speak, dares to tell consciously, and has manners, it is not damaged, it is the most comfortable. Do not forget that the more taken advantage of by others, the more fel. There are many ways to speak to people, do not contradict. Do not think that to be honest with anyone, it is a contradiction, quarrel.

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Can we talk to him soft, can we talk to him and be brave enough?

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