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I'll be an inconvenience...its ok ✨

Some people aren't intimidated by confidence.

They're intimidated by accountability.

A woman who communicates clearly, notices patterns, asks thoughtful questions, and expects actions to match words isn't "too much." She's simply difficult to manipulate.

The right people won't be threatened by your standards.

The wrong people often will.

Never shrink your awareness just to make someone else comfortable.

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#EmotionalIntelligence #HealthyRelationships #Patchies

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