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Can people be alone if there is no one?

They say that humans are social animals, have to talk to people all the time, but they wonder if people can be alone, have no friends, no boyfriends, no family, be alone, and if they go to work, have no colleagues, work alone, eat alone, would be lonely.

Personally, we are social, cheerful, like to talk, like to talk, but secretly wonder if there is such a person who can be alone without loneliness. I've tried to be alone, sometimes it's good, but I don't like it. But some people may prefer to be alone rather than with others, but I think being with a lot of people is a headache. But the part that tells and wonders is being with someone, whether it's a girlfriend, close friend, or family.

What do friends think about being alone like no one?

# Like being alone # Good alone # Safe space # No friends # Love, relationships # Relationship narrative

2024/9/18 Edited to

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