What stage is your child in??

I still consider my daughter a toddler at 3 years old. It depends on the person, but toddler age can go up to 4/5.

She only weighs 26lbs and is in the 6th percentile. She has always been on the leaner side since she was born. She’s 37 inches tall! Her dad is 6’4 and I am 5’4 so she could be taller than me when she’s older. I am 4 inches taller than my mom😂

Her jeans need the elastic ban on them for 3t size otherwise they fall off. 2t waist fits perfect but it’s way too short on her legs. She can still fit into 2t shirts and onesies😅

We also still rear face as it’s the safest for her in the car. The weight maxes out at 40lbs so she could still have a while left rear facing but I probably won’t have her go to the 40lbs maximum. But who knows, it’s the safest!

✨What stage is your child in?

✨Do you still rear face?

✨Was your baby preemie?

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2025/2/21 Edited to

... Read moreChild development is a fascinating journey that varies significantly among kids. Most toddlers range from ages 1 to 3, marked by key milestones like walking, talking, and social interaction. It's important to understand that every child progresses at their own pace; some may still be embracing toddlerhood at 4 or 5 years old. A crucial aspect of toddler growth is their physical development, such as height and weight, and understanding how this fits into growth percentiles can guide parents in assessing their child's health. For example, parents may notice that their little one is in the lower percentiles for weight and height. In such cases, engaging with healthcare professionals can provide reassurance and tailored health advice, emphasizing the importance of a balanced diet rich in essential nutrients. Parents often explore different clothing sizes and fit, using practical items like elastic waistbands for comfort and flexibility. The discussion around rear-facing car seats is equally vital, emphasizing safety for growing toddlers. Current recommendations advocate for children to remain rear-facing as long as possible, ensuring that they are secure and safe in the event of a collision. As children transition through these stages, open conversations among parents about experiences and shared concerns can foster community support and provide helpful insights. Overall, analyzing developmental milestones and engaging with caregivers can enhance your understanding of where your child stands, whether they're swiftly mastering new skills or taking their time to explore the world.

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my daughter is in the toddler stage she's 2.5 years old and was born late term at 41w+3d still rear facing and I'm currently 37 weeks with a boy

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Mine is 13 yrs old. I was 6 month prego when I had him preeclampsia full-blown started coming out before him emergency C-section 4 lbs. 4 oz. had to stay in the nicu for two weeks

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