I stopped being anxious because of this
used to think being scared all the time meant something was wrong with me. it didn't. i was just missing a few frames.
a friend who's a counselor told me to stop trying to think my way out of a spiral and let my body come down first.
so now when something feels huge, i get it out, let the urgency drop, and come back to it grounded instead of spiraling. the thing that felt life-ending at midnight is usually a footnote by friday.
the surprise was how much of my "i'm behind" feeling was just my body stuck on high alert.
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