💋 Dark Fem Energy Guide‼️Part 2.
💋 Happy Valentine’s Day! XOXO to all the single girlies out there like me. A day like this can be so hard! I have my moments when I’m lonely, but I’ve been enjoying being single, celibate, and tapping into my inner, dark feminine energy. I feel so much more powerful without a man, friends or family in my life. Being my own primary focus has helped me mentally to understand human behaviors even more and psychology.
💋 Yes, today’s Valentine’s Day. It’s a day about romance , love and gifts, but if you feel like you don’t have that - then you need to go give it to yourself. It can be hard at first, but you deserve it. Take yourself out, buy yourself flowers, brunch or a sweet treat. If you feel like crying at home, do that. I know I will. Watch a romance movie, because sometimes we need to cry! I noticed lately that it’s hard for me to cry on my own nowadays unless I’m feeling devastated. Sad movies help me to feel a release. If you really wanna CRY to a movie, watch Atonement or Mystic River. Those made me BALL my eyes OUT BAD lol. I’ll probably watch them today lmao.
💋 If you’re in a relationship, I hope that you’re being treated like you deserve and get spoiled rotten for this love day and every day after it! You deserve that.
💋Dark, feminine energy is all about putting you first, being in control, independence as a woman, and taking power into your own hands. In society, (in our light energy) we see it too often there’s this expectation that we have to conform to the gender norms of being a mother: Who nurtures, is helpful, catering, peaceful, emotional, compassionate, and even naive. There’s a lot of narcissistic people out here who are unhealed who feed off of nice women. You can be nice, but only to an extent. Have boundaries. Don’t give second chances. Know your worth so deeply that no one could shake your foundation.
💋 Light energy wise, you don’t have to be like that if you’re not that way. I used to be like that, plus a people pleaser. I would never get pleased back (the way I did to others) It drove me mad, because I was innocent, had pure intentions and was naive to a lot of other people’s intentions towards me. I was used a lot in my past relationships, friendships and with family. I cut everyone off except one person in my life. (My best friend) It’s the best thing I’ve ever done for myself and I can’t wait to continue growing as a woman in my own solidarity. I’ve taken my power back and you should do the same. My future self demanded that I show up for her. And I will.
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Building on the journey of embracing your dark feminine energy, it's not just about knowing what you deserve, but actively creating a life where you receive it. My own path has shown me that this transformation is deeply rooted in practical shifts in mindset and behavior. First, let's talk about that 'princess treatment' so many of us desire. It's not about being demanding; it's about valuing yourself so highly that others naturally step up. From my experience, this means understanding your worth and communicating your needs clearly, without apology. Remember those 'Rules with men' from the images? It's about valuing actions over empty words. If someone isn't consistently showing up with consideration, gifts, paid dinners, surprises, and unconditional support, then they're not meeting your standard. You shouldn't have to nag or compete. Instead, continuously improve yourself, creating a life so fulfilling that 'multiple options' become a natural consequence of your self-worth. This isn't about manipulation; it's about being a high-value individual who attracts quality. Cultivating a 'calm feminine presence' and learning to 'never show emotion' isn't about becoming cold, but about mastering your inner world. The 'Darkfem demeanor' suggests deliberate posture, a commanding presence without oversharing, and focused attention not clouded by insecurities. I've found that talking less and observing more empowers me. When you walk slowly, make eye contact, and remain calm, you project an aura of unshakeable confidence. This ties into the 'Let them miss you' idea – creating a bit of distance, preserving your presence for specific events, and always looking your best when you do show up. It's about making your presence a gift, not a constant commodity. You don't need to give details about being busy; your time is yours. And crucially, 'Don't be weak or people please.' This was a game-changer for me. Like a lion not hunting small, easy prey, people who prey on kindness will quickly learn you're not their target when you establish firm boundaries. I've learned that 'I don't owe anyone' my time, energy, explanations about my life, apologies when I'm not truly sorry, or insight into my private matters. These are not selfish declarations, but acts of radical self-preservation. My 'Dark fem tips' always come back to working on myself first. Don't be desperate; instead, dedicate yourself to self-discipline and personal growth. Become mysterious, not by hiding, but by focusing so intently on your own expansion that your inner world becomes a captivating enigma. Never settle for less than what you deserve, in any aspect of your life. This journey is about empowering yourself to be the woman who doesn't just wish for the princess treatment but embodies the essence of royalty through her actions, her presence, and her unwavering self-respect.
how do we start this...it's a lot? I am a people pleaser to the core.