#narcabusesurvivor

No one can waste your time but you. If marriage is the goal, why are you sacrificing yourself for this man? He was sure about having sex with you, sure about making you a baby mama, sure about going half on the bills, sure about you staying up late holding him when he was crying, sure about you su

•Ezekiel 2 and 3 are a comforting reminder that God calls us to speak our truth and stand in it. The Bible tells us clearly that there are people who will not listen to us. They will invalidate our trauma or try to manipulate us into silence, to protect their illusions in the midst of dysfunction o

After all the support and he still is the same It's easy to find someone fighting at a fast food restaurant but not a five star restaurant. For the five star restaurant you had to work a lot harder, you needed reservations, and there probably was a wait list up to a year. You have more respect

Sitting with your own pain and healing is not for the weak but it's needed. You say being with him makes you feel good but when in reality you are causing your self more pain. Avoiding pain to get into more pain makes not sense. The only difference is the pain with him is covered in a nice wrap

Who you are is enough and you have to find the people that appreciate it. When you grow in en en environment where your presence was something people settled for you'll be ok with being with someone who does the same. He won't like you but you'll be so happy just to have someone that ch

As a little girl I used to dream of getting married with the horse and carriage. I would see the women being the ones helping the man accomplish his dreams. Know I dream for me and want more in life . Yes I do want marriage but I also want to accomplish my dreams and purpose. A lot of us didn’t hav

True, authentic love can cultivate an environment that makes anyone want to grow. To be able to cultivate that for a man and he chooses to continue to cheat, be immature, and not want the same values should be eye-opening. But many times we see this as, I have to love more. Then we become overbeari

You see it all the time the guy with the pretty girl that's every man's dream and what every girl wants to look like. But you start to notice he's annoyed with he and disrespects her. Showing a strong since that he doesn't like her but he's quick to show her in a dress " loo

After all the support and he still is the same It's easy to find someone fighting at a fast food restaurant but not a five star restaurant. For the five star restaurant you had to work a lot harder, you needed reservations, and there probably was a wait list up to a year. You have more respect

Sitting with your own pain and healing is not for the weak but it's needed. You say being with him makes you feel good but when in reality you are causing your self more pain. Avoiding pain to get into more pain makes not sense. The only difference is the pain with him is covered in a nice wrap

You see it all the time the guy with the pretty girl that's every man's dream and what every girl wants to look like. But you start to notice he's annoyed with he and disrespects her. Showing a strong since that he doesn't like her but he's quick to show her in a dress " loo

True, authentic love can cultivate an environment that makes anyone want to grow. To be able to cultivate that for a man and he chooses to continue to cheat, be immature, and not want the same values should be eye-opening. But many times we see this as, I have to love more. Then we become overbeari

As a little girl I used to dream of getting married with the horse and carriage. I would see the women being the ones helping the man accomplish his dreams. Know I dream for me and want more in life . Yes I do want marriage but I also want to accomplish my dreams and purpose. A lot of us didn’t hav

Who you are is enough and you have to find the people that appreciate it. When you grow in en en environment where your presence was something people settled for you'll be ok with being with someone who does the same. He won't like you but you'll be so happy just to have someone that ch

No one can waste your time but you. If marriage is the goal, why are you sacrificing yourself for this man? He was sure about having sex with you, sure about making you a baby mama, sure about going half on the bills, sure about you staying up late holding him when he was crying, sure about you su

•Ezekiel 2 and 3 are a comforting reminder that God calls us to speak our truth and stand in it. The Bible tells us clearly that there are people who will not listen to us. They will invalidate our trauma or try to manipulate us into silence, to protect their illusions in the midst of dysfunction o