That mediocre ass wafer wants you to be grateful for his bare minimum. Don’t. Do it.

Men have really been hating my advice lately. The advice hasn’t been for moms to leave their husbands or take all their money. It’s simply been about how to center yourself as a mom. Things moms can do that take absolutely nothing away from anybody else. And yet, l’ve received LOADS of hate fro

That’s not how this works. Because over and over men show us with their INACTION that they’re all talk. They say they would and then actually don’t. Because not one did in that meeting. NOT ONE. They want the pat on the back for saying they would have. Well, wish in one hand and shit 💩 in the ot

It’s not that you don’t have compassion and empathy, it’s that it can only go so far when the other person refuses to do anything about it.

When you can’t escape your marriage, you create your own space in your current circumstances. A small way to do that is by having your own space in your house. It could be a bathroom, a desk, a corner nook, an office or another room. This place is yours and yours alone. No one to dirty it up wi

De-coding what men actually mean: a series.

Men’s default is to be centered whether they realize it or not. That’s why so often they don’t even realize that’s what they’re doing because that’s what they’re used to. This is the need and expectation I have, why is it not being done? Hardly a second thought about what their wife’s expectation

If you’re not sleeping well you might hate your husband. If you don’t want to hate your husband, sleep in a separate bed. Sleeping in my own bed might be the single greatest thing I’ve ever done for myself. I sleep better, I’m happier, my mind is healthier, and I don’t wake up resentful of my husba

Always working back from timelines and rationalizing our mom guilt for wanting time to ourselves. #momguilt #chooseyourself #momlife

Yall don’t deserve to see me dressed up. ✌🏼✈️

We’re headed to London for Thanksgiving, and we had to show up with a hostess gift, but I wanted it to be more meaningful than something I could get from Target or Amazon. Both of whom keep caving to harmful policies and profiting off people’s pain. That’s why from Black Friday to Cyber Monday, we

Don’t laugh this off. It’s not cute. It’s not funny. It’s not “parenting differently.” It’s punishment so you never do it again. Even if he never admits to it.

Score keeping for me but not for thee. #marriage #marriedlife #doublestandards #husbandsbelike

Happily toting our kids around Europe to learn about other ways of living and see different worldviews and perspectives 🫶🏼

“I can’t talk to you when you’re like this” only happens when women are talking about their feelings and emotions.

We are this 👌🏼 close to being home but whyyyyyyy do they do this?! #momlife #parenting #travelingwithkids

London at Christmas time is absolutely magical. Nothing could truly capture how all-out the city goes to decorate. It was so fun! #traveltolondon #travelingwithkids #christmastime

“Is this normal?” “Should I have to ask him not to do that?” “How often should I ask him to be kind to me?” These are all actual questions I’ve seen women ask in regard to their husband’s behavior and treatment of them.

Your husband CAN anticipate and participate in creating the holiday magic - IF HE WANTS TO. But there is no amount of communicating and delegating and asking or reminding that’s going to get him to care about these things. So please know, this isn’t due to lack of communication on YOUR part, it’s

How are men not embarrassed?