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. Tell yourself.. don't meet mean people again.

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... Read moreบางวันเราอยากได้ “กลอนความรักหวานๆ” ไว้เติมพลัง ไม่ได้เพื่อหวานใส่ใครอย่างเดียว แต่เพื่อหวานให้หัวใจตัวเองด้วย โดยเฉพาะวันที่เผลอไปเจอคนใจร้าย หรือคำพูดที่ทำให้เราหม่นลง ฉันเลยชอบเขียน/เซฟประโยคสั้นๆ ไว้เตือนใจว่า ต่อให้โลกใจร้ายแค่ไหน เราก็ยังยิ้มให้ตัวเองได้เสมอ กลอนความรักหวานๆ แบบสั้นๆ (อ่านง่าย โพสต์ได้) 1) ขอให้เจอแต่คนใจดี ที่อยู่ใกล้แล้วใจเราเบา ถ้าวันไหนโลกใจร้ายกับเรา…ขอให้รอยยิ้มยังอยู่ข้างเราเหมือนเดิม 2) ความรักที่ดีไม่ต้องดัง แค่อบอุ่นพอให้เรายิ้มได้ทุกวัน 3) ถ้าเธอเหนื่อยกับการพยายาม พักก่อนนะ…แล้วกอดตัวเองให้แน่นๆ 4) ขอให้ความรักไม่ทำร้าย ขอให้หัวใจได้เจอ “คนใจดี” ที่เข้าใจเราจริงๆ 5) ต่อให้ใครไม่เห็นค่าเรา อย่างน้อย…เรายังเห็นค่าตัวเอง 6) รักที่หวานที่สุด คือรักที่ทำให้เรา “สบายใจ” ไม่ต้องฝืน 7) ถ้าวันนี้มีน้ำตา พรุ่งนี้ขอให้มีแสงแดด และรอยยิ้มของเรา 8) ขอให้เธอยังยิ้มให้ตัวเอง :) เพราะเธอคือคนสำคัญที่สุดในชีวิตเธอเสมอ ทริคเล็กๆ เวลาอยากใช้กลอนให้ “ตรงความรู้สึก” มากขึ้น - ถ้าเพิ่งผ่านเรื่องแย่ๆ ให้เลือกโทนปลอบใจ เช่น “ขอให้เจอแต่คนใจดี” หรือ “อย่าลืมยิ้มให้ตัวเอง” - ถ้าอยากลงสตอรี่/แคปชั่น เลือกแบบ 1–2 บรรทัด อ่านจบแล้วรู้สึกอุ่นทันที - ถ้าอยากส่งให้คนพิเศษ เลือกคำที่ไม่กดดัน เช่น “อยู่แล้วสบายใจ” มากกว่า “ต้องอยู่ตลอดไป” สุดท้ายฉันอยากฝากไว้เหมือนที่ชอบเตือนตัวเอง…ขอให้เราเจอแต่ผู้คนที่ทำให้หัวใจอบอุ่น และถ้าวันไหนเผลอเจอคนใจร้าย ก็สัญญานะ ว่าจะยังยิ้มให้ตัวเองได้ เพราะรอยยิ้มของเราเป็นพลังที่ปลอบใจตัวเองได้เสมอ

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