30 days until my first tattoo. 🖤

I’ve wanted a tattoo for as long as I can remember. I’ve also always been the girl who hates needles, gets nervous about pain, and could never quite commit to one design. I had ideas. I saved pictures. I looked at tattoos online and thought, “Maybe something like that.” But nothing ever reall

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New road ahead 💚🫜🪴🌿🌻🦆

I missed Sunday. Then Monday came and went too. Normally I would have felt like I needed to catch up, explain myself, or force something out just because I said I would. But I’ve been thinking a lot about what I want Becoming Her to actually be. I still want to share this journey. I

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🦆💚Boy or Girl Luigi💚🦆

Okay but apparently we’ve got a full-blown Luigi identity crisis happening over here 😂🦆 For the longest time I was convinced I had a Mr. Luigi. The raspy quack, the attitude, the whole little dude vibe… case closed. Except now there are suspicious eggs entering the chat. 👀🥚 And suddenly I’

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🍓 RANDOM LITTLE CHECK-IN

Emergency room random check in… because apparently we’re just vibing today 😂 Okay, I need entertainment, so tell me your answers: ☕ Coffee or energy drink? 🌙 Night owl or morning person? 🌊 Lake day or cozy rainy day? 🎶 90s/2000s music or today’s music? 🌸 Flowers or houseplants? 📖 Book

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Things Healing Has Taught Me 🌿

Sometimes healing doesn’t look like journaling every night. It doesn’t look like checking every box. It doesn’t look like having the perfect routine, the perfect mindset, or something meaningful to post. Sometimes healing looks like… 🌿 being a little quieter ☕ enjoying your coffee without

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MONDAY CHECK-IN 🤍

Before the week gets loud… No big healing lesson today. No pressure to have your shit together. No perfectly planned fresh start. Just a little place to stop before the appointments, responsibilities, other people’s needs, errands, work, school, laundry, dishes, and whatever unexpected

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Lately, I haven’t really known what to say. I’ve been quieter. Less consistent. Less sure of myself. Not because nothing is happening, but because sometimes too much is happening at once and there aren’t words big enough for all of it. There are moments I feel proud of how far I’ve come.

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Day late but still here 🌿

Midweek check-in… a day late, because apparently life does not care about my posting schedule. 😂🍋 I haven’t posted much lately. Not because I stopped healing. Not because I stopped learning. Not because I disappeared. I think I’ve just been living some of it instead of immediately turnin

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I think I rushed the documenting part of healing.

Writing again has been one of the best things I’ve done for myself. It has helped me see patterns. It has made me more honest with myself. It has helped me slow down enough to actually look at what I’m feeling instead of just reacting to it. And sharing some of that has been really mean

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MONDAY CHECK-IN ☕🌿

Well… Here we fucking go again. 😂 New Monday. New week. Same slightly chaotic human trying to figure her shit out one day at a time. And this morning, I don’t want to start with everything I need to accomplish. I don’t want to make a giant list of everything I need to fix. I do

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🌿BECOMING HER — DAY 95

Sunday, August 23, 2026 Today started like absolute fucking shit. Literally. Somehow one of the cats got locked in the office overnight, and I woke up to piss, shit, and a smell so goddamn awful that I immediately wanted to cancel the entire day. I was pissed. I was irritated. I w

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I haven’t disappeared. I’ve just been living

The last couple of days have actually been really good. Not perfect. Not quiet in my head. Not magically healed. Just… good. I’ve had some healing moments. Some realizations. Some uncomfortable self-awareness. Some moments where I’ve had to stop and look at myself differentl

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FRIDAY CHECK-IN 🌿🤎

Okay… Monday we checked in before the week got loud. Well. The week got fucking loud. 😂 So before we rush into the weekend, let’s check back in. Not: Did I get everything done? Not: Was I productive enough? Not even: Did I handle everything the “right” way? Just… Ho

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🌿BECOMING HER — DAY 92

Thursday, August 20, 2026 Today was one of those days where my brain had about 47 fucking tabs open, but somehow… it was still a really good day. I was awake off and on starting around 5 this morning, but actually got my ass out of bed around 7. The kiddo was already awake, so we got movin

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Okay, enough about me. 😂🤎

I actually want to know: How the hell are YOU? Not the automatic “I’m good.” Like… really. How’s life? What’s been taking up space in your head lately? 🌿 Tell me something good. 🤎 Tell me something hard. ✨ Tell me something you’re proud of — especially if it seems tiny to ev

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🌿DAY 91 — NOTE TO SELF: I’M SO MUCH HAPPIER ALONE.

Motherfucking goddamn it. I think I might actually be happier alone. There. I said it. Today started stupid fucking early. I had to be up, functioning, and out the door before 7 AM for my psychiatrist appointment. And after the kind of day I had yesterday—which I’m not ready to talk

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🌿 THINGS HEALING HAS TAUGHT ME — #1

A Journey Back to Me My nervous system is not the enemy. This one has been a mindfuck to learn. Because for a long time, I thought some of my reactions were just… me. Why can I go from okay to completely overwhelmed? Why do I overthink everything? Why do I sometimes shut down when

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🌿 DAY 89 — MAYBE THIS IS WHAT LEARNING TO LIVE LOOKS LIKE

This morning, I did my Monday Check-In. ☕ My energy: hopeful 🧠 My brain: ready for Monday 🤎 Emotionally, I was carrying: a lost, hurt, broken inner child 🌿 Something I needed this week: patience with myself 🗑️ Something I wasn’t carrying into this week: the guilt I built last week ✨ And one

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MONDAY CHECK-IN ☕🌿

Okay… before the week gets loud. Before the appointments, responsibilities, other people’s feelings, shit that needs to get done, and whatever unexpected chaos inevitably shows up… How are you actually walking into this week? Because I’m realizing I don’t need to start Monday with a perfec

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DAY 88 — I FINALLY LISTENED.

Today was messy. And happy. And uncomfortable. And ordinary. Basically, it was real fucking life. I slept in. I sang. I cleaned. I went shopping and bought myself some things because I’m finally learning that enjoying something for myself doesn’t require guilt or permission. Th

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🌿 Becoming Her | Heather