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You don’t choose them, they choose you

You don’t choose them, they choose you

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... Read moreประโยคที่ฉันชอบมากคือ “การที่จะหาพนักงานที่เก่งเข้ามาทำงานด้วย คุณไม่ได้เป็นคนเลือกเขา แต่เขาเป็นคนเลือกคุณ” ฟังดูแรงนิด ๆ แต่จริงมาก โดยเฉพาะยุคที่คนเก่งมีตัวเลือกเยอะ เขาไม่ได้ดูแค่เงินเดือน เขาดูด้วยว่าองค์กรให้โอกาส เติบโต และเคารพคุณค่าของเขาแค่ไหน ถ้าคุณเป็น HR/หัวหน้าทีม และอยาก “ทำตัวให้เป็นองค์กรที่น่าร่วมงานด้วย” (ตามใจความในภาพ) ฉันแนะนำให้เริ่มจาก 3 เรื่องนี้ 1) ความชัดเจนของงานและความคาดหวัง: JD ต้องตรงกับงานจริง เป้าหมายทีมชัด วัดผลแบบยุติธรรม คนเก่งแพ้ความคลุมเครือ 2) วัฒนธรรมการทำงาน: ฟีดแบ็กได้จริง ไม่ใช่แค่คำสวย ๆ บนสไลด์ หัวหน้าฟังเป็น เคารพเวลา ไม่ยกย่องการทำงานดึกเป็นความขยัน 3) เส้นทางเติบโต: มีโปรเจกต์ท้าทาย มีโค้ช/เมนเทอร์ หรืออย่างน้อยมีพื้นที่ให้ลองผิดลองถูกแบบปลอดภัย ส่วนฝั่งผู้สมัคร ถ้าถูกถามว่า “ทำไมต้องเลือกคุณเข้าทำงาน” ฉันเคยใช้โครงตอบง่าย ๆ คือ “คุณค่า + หลักฐาน + วิธีทำงาน” เช่น - “หนู/ผมช่วยทีมปิดงานให้ไวขึ้นได้ เพราะถนัดจัดระบบและสื่อสารกับหลายฝ่าย เคยลดเวลาส่งมอบจาก X เหลือ Y ด้วยการทำเช็กลิสต์และกำหนดจุดตรวจงานชัดเจน ถ้าได้ร่วมทีมจะเริ่มจากทำความเข้าใจเป้าหมายและตั้งวิธีติดตามงานให้ทุกคนเห็นภาพเดียวกันครับ/ค่ะ” อีกเวอร์ชันที่ใช้ได้เกือบทุกสายงาน: - “เหตุผลที่ควรเลือกผม/ฉันคือทำงานแบบรับผิดชอบและวัดผลได้ เคยทำโปรเจกต์ A แล้วได้ผลลัพธ์ B ภายในเวลา C สิ่งที่ถนัดคือแก้ปัญหาหน้างานและสื่อสารตรงไปตรงมา” สำหรับคำคมคนทำงานที่ฉันใช้เตือนตัวเอง: “อย่าพยายามให้บริษัทเลือกเราอย่างเดียว จงเลือกบริษัทที่เคารพเราเหมือนกัน” เพราะสุดท้ายความสัมพันธ์การทำงานเป็นเรื่อง ‘เลือกกันและกัน’ และอีกประเด็นที่หลายคนมองข้ามแต่สำคัญมาก: สุขภาพสำคัญที่สุด ต่อให้ได้งานในฝัน แต่ถ้าต้องแลกกับการนอนไม่พอ เครียดสะสม หรือทำงานจนหมดไฟ ระยะยาวไม่คุ้มเลย ฉันเลยตั้งกติกากับตัวเองว่า ถ้าเริ่มไม่มีแรง/ไม่มีความสุข จะหยุดทบทวนทันที ว่าปัญหาอยู่ที่งาน วิธีทำงาน หรือสภาพแวดล้อม แล้วค่อยคุย/ปรับให้ถูกจุด

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You don’t have to choose.
Not everyone has a supportive family. Not every mom feels good about daycare. Some of us just want to be present - and still contribute financially. I didn't want to trade moments for money, So I learned how to build income online instead. No inventory. No huge following. Just my
Nikki Hendrix | Rural Digital

Nikki Hendrix | Rural Digital

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A title slide for an article on effective communication, displaying "HOW TO DEAL WITH CONFRONTATION AND COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY" on a beige background with white flower patterns.
A light green slide with the text "LISTEN AND COMPREHEND" and a "SWIPE" arrow, indicating a step in effective communication.
A teal slide featuring the text "BE UNDERSTANDING" and a "Swipe>>" button, highlighting another step for effective communication.
How to communicate effectively!!
It’s a lot easier than you would think! Here’s a break down of each step! Listen and comprehend: To communicate effectively you need to know exactly what must be communicated. This can only be done if you completely listen and understand what is being said to you. Be understanding: Don’t j
Juliana Sanchez

Juliana Sanchez

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A woman frames her face with her hands, with text overlayed: "TOUCH HIM HERE" and "The 'Pavlov' trick to trigger addiction." The image promotes using touch for psychological conditioning.
Text on a white background defines "Anchoring" as training a man to feel euphoria through touch by connecting a specific touch to a high emotion, referencing Ivan Pavlov's experiment.
Text on a white background describes "The 'Laughter' Anchor," instructing to lightly touch a man's forearm or shoulder when he is laughing or excited to link your touch with dopamine release.
How to make him addicted to your touch
(The Pavlov Hack). 🖐️🧠 Psychology Series: Part 36 🕯️ Did you know you can "program" a man to be obsessed with you? It’s called Anchoring (or Pavlovian Conditioning). Just like Pavlov trained dogs to react to a bell, you can train a man to react to your touch. Most girls touch men randoml
Emily | Mindset & Growth

Emily | Mindset & Growth

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A hand holds a pen and highlighter over Rick Warren's 'The Purpose Driven Life' book, with 'READ W/ ME DAY 33' overlaid, indicating a daily reading session.
Page 257 of 'The Purpose Driven Life' titled 'How Real Servants Act,' discussing serving God by serving others and defining greatness by service, not status.
Page 258 of 'The Purpose Driven Life' details how real servants make themselves available, emphasizing that a servant's heart reveals maturity and requires character.
Read With Me: Day 33
Hey everyone! I noticed my Read With Me post have became extremely popular on my TikTok and I figure why not share the word with my #lemon8family . In case you or someone needs it. Here’s my notes from my bible study today. Over the past year I have been reading this book by Rick Warren and it ha
Bre

Bre

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A mother kneels in the ocean, embracing her two young sons, with waves breaking around them. Text overlay reads "Rules For my SONS That make people MAD".
A close-up selfie shows a smiling woman and a laughing young boy, with the boy resting on her. Text overlay states, "1: we limit sugar, preservatives, and food dyes."
Two young boys, wearing matching peach shirts, are in a backyard with a wooden fence. The older boy hugs the younger one from behind. Text overlay says, "2: church isn't optional."
Rules i have for my Sons that Make people Mad
Rules I have for my kids that make people mad: 1: We limit sugar, preservatives, and food dyes and rarely let them have it. I’ve been called overly strict for not letting my kids have sugar but let me tell you… these kids are energetic enough without it. I’ve noticed HUGE improvements in our h
Lis Daily | UGC

Lis Daily | UGC

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Not looking for a relationship
#datingtipsformen #datingcoach #datingcoachformen
Camelia

Camelia

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50 THINGS YOU CAN DO TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE 🌱🍋🤍
Recently I felt stuck in a rut and I was really happy to have this list with me. I started with the first 5 things and then picked random things to do in this list and there I was: back to my normal self. If you also have those moments I recommend you save this post for later ! It happens to eve
Ines blond

Ines blond

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Cali

Cali

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Replying to @Saylor long distance advice!!!!😇 #relationships #relationshiptips #relationshipadvice #longdistancerelationships #longdistancetips
Annika | Big Sister Advice

Annika | Big Sister Advice

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A TV screen displays an anime scene with a dark-haired character looking right, captioned "What? Hori actually came to school?". The foreground shows a bed with a teddy bear and the text "6 ANIME'S YOU SHOULD WATCH AS A BEGINNER PT.2".
An anime cover for "Maid Sama!" featuring a girl in a maid outfit and a boy holding a tray with a drink. The image includes the title, collection details, and a rating of 9/10.
An anime cover for "Free! Dive to the Future" showing multiple male characters, some in swim attire, against a blue water background. The image includes the title and a rating of 9/10.
✨ 6 anime’s you should watch as a beginner pt.2 ✨
If you haven’t checked out part one of this series go do so! But I’m back to share 6 more of my fav (easy to digest) anime’s for beginners and this time I rated them notice how I only watch bangers lol ;) . One thing I will say is check the trigger warning for a few of these shows because they can
Kayla

Kayla

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the #1 rule to stop caring about what others think
this stuff is NOT easy to achieve, I know. unlearning our negative beliefs and fears takes a lot of patience and practice. but if you want to be truly free, stop living like you’re on trial. Here’s the mindset shift that actually works!! #lemon8partner #positiveenergy #wellnessessentials
alexa vicktoria

alexa vicktoria

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A collage showcasing six book covers under the title "SPICIEST WHY CHOOSE BOOK RECS." The covers include "Faking with Benefits," "The Never List," "Pucking Around," "Den of Vipers," "The Never King," and "Hate." The image promotes romance book recommendations.
A detailed description of "The Never List" by Jade Presley. It's a Dark Fantasy Romance with Fated Mates, Trial-Based Courtship, and features a Runaway Commoner with Four Cursed Princes. The spice level is 4/5.
A detailed description of "Den of Vipers" by K.A Knight. It's a Reverse Harem Romance featuring an Untamable Girl and Criminal Underworld Kings, with Jealousy Kink and Dom/Sub Power Play. The spice level is 5/5.
🔥Spiciest Why Choose Book Recs
These books don't just turn up the heat — they burn the whole trope down. ✨Reverse harems 😈Morally grey men 💦Zero chill. Max heat. All hers. What's your all-time favorite Why Choose romance?👇🏻 #lemon8challenge #lemon8bookclub #spicyromance #romancebooks #whychooseromance
ClaraReadsRomance

ClaraReadsRomance

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