How to face rejection without relapsing?

I have narrowed down my worst and surest relapse trigger as rejection. Rejection from jobs, perceived rejection, being dumped, etc. I take things so hard and I have been working on this in therapy and using medication to try and make me less sensitive and nothing helps. Did anyone experience this or do you have any suggestions?

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2024/8/19 Edited to

... Read moreRejection is a challenging emotional experience that can trigger strong feelings of inadequacy and depression. Understanding that rejection is a universal experience can provide comfort; everyone faces it in various forms, whether it’s in relationships, job applications, or social interactions. Emotional sensitivity to rejection may stem from past experiences, low self-esteem, or anxiety. To effectively cope with rejection, consider developing a stronger support system by surrounding yourself with understanding friends and family who respect your feelings. Additionally, mindfulness practices such as meditation can help in regulating emotional responses and can be beneficial for improving emotional resilience. It is also advisable to engage in therapeutic practices that focus on cognitive restructuring, which helps in viewing rejection from a less personal perspective. Journaling your feelings can serve as a valuable tool for processing your emotions and identifying triggers for your sensitive reactions. Furthermore, participating in community forums or support groups can be an excellent way to share experiences and learn from others facing similar challenges. Remember, facing rejection doesn’t define your worth; it’s an opportunity for growth and greater self-awareness. By implementing these strategies, you can cultivate a healthier relationship with the concept of rejection and reduce the risk of relapse.

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Yes, some can’t handle rejection so first thing they do is retaliate in a hateful manner. It’s okay to be rejected you could be dodging a situation that just wasn’t meant for you.

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Rejection is so hard. I have let rejection ruin my day many times before but I’ve been trying to practice brushing it off and moving on

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