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💜If you’re ever in this situation, please leave before it’s too late. This isn’t love 💜 #🦉🍒 #dv #dvawareness #toxicrelationships #survivalmode #fyp #foryoupage #dvsurvivor💜

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Deborah Mckinne

I did this…after he almost killed me

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I hope that you’re talking to the females that pushed a man to the point of no return with their lies and they’re cheating and their gains and their egos and selfishness seeking attention from just anybody yeah I fell if you’re in a situation like that, please leave before she pushes you to the edge and then in the society, the man is always the wrong

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