Is your cup EMPTY?!✨
I used to wait until I was completely exhausted before I gave myself permission to rest.
Not regular tired either.
I mean irritated by everything, ignoring texts, staring at my phone without actually reading anything, sitting in the car for an extra 10 minutes because I wasn’t ready to go inside kind of tired. 😩
And somehow I would STILL convince myself…
“I’m good. I just need to push through.”
But constantly pushing through eventually turns into running on empty.
I had to learn that I don’t have to earn rest by reaching my breaking point.
I can say no before I become resentful.
I can take a break before my body forces me to.
I can stop answering every call, fixing every problem, carrying everybody’s emotions, and being everything to everybody.
And I can choose myself without writing a five-paragraph explanation about why. 😂
Because self-care isn’t always candles, vacations, and spa days.
Sometimes self-care sounds like:
“Not today.”
“I don’t have the capacity.”
“That doesn’t work for me.”
“I need some time for myself.”
And sometimes it’s putting your phone on Do Not Disturb and letting everybody figure it out for a minute. 😭
You deserve a life where you don’t have to completely fall apart before you finally take care of yourself.
Fill your cup too. 🖤✨
— Dr. Charyeea
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It took me years to understand this. Now that I know better, I do better ❤️🥰🔥