literally asked me to edit a vid of them two while i was crying btw. |

From my own experience, being the friend who often ends up watching others have fun without you can be really tough emotionally. I remember times when I was asked to help with something creative, like editing a video for friends, but I was struggling with my own feelings in the background. It’s a strange mix of wanting to support and be there for your friends, while also feeling vulnerable and left behind. I learned that it’s okay to acknowledge these feelings openly, even if that means crying or expressing sadness while still completing what’s been asked of you. This duality can help deepen friendships because it shows authenticity and trust. Sometimes, friends don’t realize how their actions impact others until it’s shared honestly. If you ever find yourself as "the friend left behind," try to communicate how you feel in a constructive way. It can lead to better understanding and stronger connections. Also, turning these moments into creative outlets, such as editing videos or creating something meaningful, can be therapeutic and empowering. Lastly, hashtags like #thatsucksbutgrowup resonate because they remind us that while things suck sometimes, personal growth often comes from facing challenges head-on. Sharing these experiences online can help others feel less alone and encourage empathy in friendships.