Finding myself

2025/2/21 Edited to

... Read moreCollege life is an incredible journey filled with opportunities for personal growth. It’s a time when you figure out who you are outside of your family’s expectations and discover new interests. During this period, many students grapple with various challenges. One of the most important aspects of college life is building a supportive friendship network, which can play a significant role in emotional well-being. Embracing new experiences, such as joining clubs or studying abroad, can also aid in self-discovery. Engaging in campus events allows for a rich exchange of ideas and cultures, further enhancing your personal journey. Moreover, utilizing college resources like counseling services can provide guidance and support during tumultuous times. It’s crucial to embrace the fun moments and the lessons learned from the challenging experiences. Ultimately, finding yourself in college is about balance—between academics, social life, and personal development—that shapes the individual you become.

Related posts

A smiling woman with long brown hair looks at the camera, with the text overlay '5 things I did to FIND MYSELF AGAIN' in white bubble letters.
A person's feet in grey socks are on green artificial turf next to a black 12.5 lb weight plate, with text about 'revisiting childhood joys'.
A woman with dark hair and bangs sits in a car, with text overlay 'experimenting with style' and a description about trying new looks.
tips to find yourself again ✨
finding yourself really just means getting back to the core of who you’ve always been. a lot of times, we end up going looking for ourselves when everything we needed to know was already in us! we just didn’t know how to see it yet. your 20’s are such a precious and special time for this. but yo
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

218 likes

Ways to find yourself (again) 🤍
Feeling lost can be overwhelming, but it’s also an opportunity for self-discovery and growth. Here are some ways to reconnect with yourself: 1. Reflect on What’s Changed 🔍Identify what’s making you feel lost—new challenges, a shift in identity, or burnout. 📓Journal your thoughts and emotio
EP 🌱

EP 🌱

1246 likes

Refinding Me at 34 Because It’s Not Too Late !!
I’m 34. And lately, I’ve been feeling like a stranger to myself. I used to be bold, fun, confident, spontaneous — the friend who always had the energy, the ideas, the glow. But life hit. Hard. Bills piled up. Dreams got delayed. I didn’t choose to slow down — life chose it for me. And sudde
Sweet Blac

Sweet Blac

3153 likes

how to find yourself
this has truly changed my life and I'm so happy i did this in my 20s- it really helped me feel so clear on who i am and actually feel inspired. I still do all of these things because they have changed the baseline of how i feel every single day. #lemon8partner #mentalhealth #depression
Valerie

Valerie

1625 likes

A woman with curly hair takes a mirror selfie, wearing a black corset top and red skirt. The image is titled "HOW TO FIND YOUR SPARK (AGAIN)" in pink text.
A kitchen with light purple walls, pink cabinets, a black refrigerator, and a black and white checkered floor. The text overlay reads "RESET YOUR HOME."
A woman in a light blue bra and sparkly pants takes a mirror selfie in a public restroom. The text overlay says "2. PUT ON A CUTE OUTFIT AND GO OUT."
How to Find Your Spark (Again)
I thought I had gotten over a large hump in my life to find out that I’d been in a lul the whole time. Finding my spark comes in many different ways. Here are a few that have helped me in different ways depending on my different moods. #embracevulnerability #unfiltered #findingyourself #self
thebrooklynkelly

thebrooklynkelly

105 likes

A young woman sits smiling in front of an old wooden door covered in green vines. The image title reads "finding yourself in your 20's," with text below indicating "9 Ways to Begin the Process of Exploring, Discovering, Learning, & Becoming Yourself."
Against a backdrop of an old wooden door and green vines, a white text box lists the first five tips for finding yourself in your 20s: Heal, Lean into Discomfort, Explore Your Passion, Follow Your Curiosity, and Notice and Reflect.
Set against an old wooden door and green vines, a white text box displays the remaining four tips for finding yourself in your 20s: Experiment, Fail, Find Your Non-Negotiables, and Don't Hold On Too Tight.
9 ways to find yourself in your 20’s 🫶
hello beautiful! there is ofc no blueprint for finding yourself, but today we’re gonna break down the basics! ♡ ♡ ♡ it’s so important know who you really are!! not who you present to others, not how people think of you or what you’ve been through, but your real nature and true character. you
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

1163 likes

4 Ways to Find Yourself Again
Feeling completely disconnected from yourself…your body…your self-concept…is the WEIRDEST feeling. You go X amount of years feeling so secure in your identity, only for something to happen that rips you from that reality and causes you to no longer recognize yourself. When that happened to me
Courtney

Courtney

35 likes

Finding myself again
Brittany

Brittany

701 likes

you’re finding yourself again…
healing isn’t loud the way people think it is it’s quiet it’s slow it’s learning how to sit with yourself again it’s choosing yourself in small ways when it would be easier not to and some days it doesn’t feel like progress at all but it is because every time you k
QuietMindHealthy

QuietMindHealthy

13 likes

3 steps finding yourself ✨🥰
Steps to finding yourself again ✨ #prettywoman #Lemon8Diary #lemon8challenge #fashionfinds #viral
Toni ♏️

Toni ♏️

51 likes

Finding myself 🌸
Hisfavoritemunchkin_

Hisfavoritemunchkin_

2 likes

5 tips on How to find yourself
Sharing some tips on learning exactly who you are! Over the last year, I’ve moved and needed to be myself. I’ve found that taking time for what I love has been much more enjoyable. Learning how to ignore others opinions and like my own live is so freeing. ❤️ #growthmindset #lemon8challeng
Grace ❤️

Grace ❤️

52 likes

A dark background with pink hibiscus flowers and orange lilies. The text "4 Deep Questions To Get To Know Yourself ❤️" is prominently displayed in pink, with "Lemon8 @miaaa.reign" at the bottom.
A person with long dark wavy hair takes a mirror selfie, holding a smartphone to their face. The text asks, "What would I do if I knew I couldn't fail ?" with an explanation below, and "Lemon8 @miaaa.reign" at the bottom.
A person with long dark wavy hair takes a mirror selfie, holding a smartphone to their face. The text asks, "What parts of myself have I been hiding to fit in?" with an explanation below, and "Lemon8 @miaaa.reign" at the bottom.
Deep Questions 4 U 🌸
Sometimes we hit a point in our life when we realize that we don’t know ourselves like we thought we have… And that’s okay! Knowing ourselves takes time and is a constant process of learning and allowing us to change. As we grow and experience different things we are allowed to become different ve
Ocean ☆

Ocean ☆

4594 likes

Things that helped me find myself again🌸
#selflove #selflovejourney #peaceofmind #peaceful #lovingmyself #love #findingmyself #findingmypeople
caseyp123

caseyp123

16 likes

3 Tips for Finding Yourself 🦋
Finding yourself is a journey, not a destination. Whether you’re rediscovering your purpose or searching for clarity in a world full of noise, this post will guide you through three transformative tips to reconnect with who you truly are. These insights are simple yet powerful, designed to inspire
Ocean ☆

Ocean ☆

552 likes

I use to be that girl ✨(pictures from 2022)
Finding myself after I fell off #prettywoman #beautifulblackgirl #prettyself #glowup So here’s my plan right 😅 -Start working out 4 days a week again🏋🏽‍♀️🏋🏽‍♀️🏋🏽‍♀️ -Only drink water and tea (peach cran has me In a chokehold rn)🧃 -Get my nails done consistently again💅🏾 -Wax, brows, h
Nubiamarie 🌈

Nubiamarie 🌈

1240 likes

I want to find myself again
I feel like , I lost myself after having my children . No they aren’t the problem , I just don’t know what happened . . I used to love getting fixed up and ready , now I’m just like I could care less !! Why is that ?! What can I do to change that ?! Somebody help ! #findingmyselfafterbaby #momli
Life With Shundral | SAHM 🦋

Life With Shundral | SAHM 🦋

264 likes

A cozy window seat with pillows and a rustic wooden wall, featuring the overlaid text "Finding myself again.." and decorative stars and flowers.
A window seat with pillows, displaying a prompt card asking "What are some things that you enjoy?" and a reminder to focus on joy, not trends.
An open Bible with highlighted passages and tabs, featuring the overlaid text "Time in Bible study. Jesus" and notes about prayer and faith.
How do I find myself again?
I recently watched a YouTube video where the mom was cutting a lot of stuff out in the new year. And a point she made was she was getting rid of the things that influenced her that she thought she needed to be or needed to have because it was ✨tending✨ but it really wasn’t her. I feel like
Ashlie

Ashlie

10 likes

A clipboard holds a paper titled "FINDING YOUR TRUE SELF Who are you? 12 JOURNAL PROMPTS" in black and pink text. A pen with a pink crocheted flower rests on the paper, with a green plant in the background. The bottom left corner shows "lemon8 @simply.jau."
A clipboard displays a list of 12 numbered journal prompts for self-discovery, including questions like "What do I love about life?" and "List things that make me smile." A pen with a pink crocheted flower is on the paper. The bottom left corner shows "lemon8 @simply.jau."
A black and tan dog looks up with its tongue out at a person's arm holding an orange peel. A yellow speech bubble says "Let's connect!". The scene is set indoors on a patterned rug. The bottom left corner shows "lemon8 @simply.jau."
12 Easy Journal Prompts: Know Yourself Better
Life is a journey of getting to know ourselves, always changing and growing if we want to. Especially when we're in our 20s or younger, it can be tough to figure out who we are beyond what we've been taught. These 12 journal prompts are here to help you understand yourself better and wh
Jau 🤎

Jau 🤎

1074 likes

A woman in a black suit and sunglasses squats, with the title 'A GUIDE TO Finding Yourself Again Your Reset Season Starts NOW - No Excuses!' overlayed on a dark background.
Text 'REDISCOVER WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL ALIVE' with bullet points about reflecting on past passions and asking self-discovery questions, set against an indoor scene with a large plant and a mirror.
Text 'RECLAIM YOUR PERSONAL SPACE' with bullet points about setting boundaries and creating a sacred space, displayed over a vase of white roses on a dark surface.
Trying to Find Yourself again? This is for YOU
Finding yourself after kids or a breakup can feel like piecing your life back together while rediscovering the person you were meant to be. Here’s a roadmap to help you reclaim your identity and step into your next chapter stronger and more aligned! This is your rebirth season. You’ve been throu
HomeGrl Liz

HomeGrl Liz

123 likes

Finding YourSelf Again 💗
Link in bio for all the deets 💜 #beautyinfluencerusa #wfhm #nwm
Kristal

Kristal

1 like

Finding Myself
#findingme #selflove
Phoebe_Evans

Phoebe_Evans

2 likes

A person in grey leggings and white sneakers sits in a car, with a smartwatch on their wrist. The image features the title "FEELING LOST IN YOUR 20s? here's the secret to finding yourself," introducing the topic of self-discovery.
A hand holds an open book on a white bed, displaying text that defines "finding myself" as understanding one's core self, desires, and joys, and acknowledging continuous evolution.
The image shows a person's lap with a black bag, featuring text overlays suggesting "try new things" like travel or new hobbies, and "journal" as methods for self-discovery and deeper self-knowledge.
how to find yourself in your 20s
First things first, we need to realize we’re always evolving, always changing, always learning, always growing. That is normal. When I think of what “finding myself” means, I think of getting to know myself. Who am I truly at my core? What is it that I want in life? What brings me joy? Here are som
Rebekah Joy

Rebekah Joy

589 likes

A smiling woman in pink roller skates stands on a path by a grassy field and water, with the title "How to Find Yourself Again" and hearts overlaid.
A vintage street clock with "SAN JUAN CAPISTRANO" and "ROTARY" against a cloudy blue sky, illustrating the point "01. Give Yourself Patience" from the article.
A person holds a coffee cup in a cafe setting with a wicker chair, accompanying the text "02. Take Yourself on Dates" which advises reconnecting with oneself.
How to Find Yourself Again
After I left my last relationship, I struggled to come back to myself. I lost myself in the process of pleasing that relationship. In order to find myself again, these are some of the steps I took. 01. Give Yourself Patience When starting the journey back to finding yourself, it needs to take t
mary ₊˚⊹♡

mary ₊˚⊹♡

113 likes

Finding myself again☀️
The biggest advice I would give my younger self is to not compromise so much that people get used to me being who they want me to me. I would rather be the villain in their stories while staying true to myself. #midjuly #lifelessons #ifbbpro
Sumaiya | Prep + Posing Coach

Sumaiya | Prep + Posing Coach

0 likes

Finding myself
Me I’m on a journey to finding myself. The past month has been a very trying time for me and I have absolutely no one in my corner. I’ve deleted my social media accounts and decided to start over and document my journey. I may be in a dark place now but I am sure one day I will find the l
Simply_Briana

Simply_Briana

12 likes

How To Fall in Love With Yourself Again
There comes a time when you realize you’ve been pouring into everything and everyone except yourself. Maybe life got busy, maybe you’ve been through some tough situations, or maybe you just forgot what it felt like to truly love who you are. But the beautiful thing about self-love? You can always c
Beauty

Beauty

2073 likes

Know Myself: Question For Self Discovery
Know Myself: Question For Self Discovery #knowyourself #selflove #selfimprovement #selfhelp #Lemon8
It’s The Real Jay Anthony

It’s The Real Jay Anthony

42 likes

A collage showing a green smoothie, a person applying a face mask, dumbbells, and books, illustrating a guide to personal transformation in 3 months.
A hand writing a gratitude list in a notebook, accompanied by text outlining mindset tips like affirmations, podcasts, and reading for self-improvement.
A hand holding a bowl of salad with salmon, alongside text detailing diet tips such as adding healthier options, high-protein meals, reducing processed foods, and drinking more water.
become a better you in 3 months or less🪄
winter arc- but make it for anytime of the year👏🏽 use this as a guide to lock in for a "90 day run". essentially to glow up and see visible changes within yourself and your reality within 3 months. it is up to you to make the changes you seek, and it starts with your daily choices. l
Erriel Lorré

Erriel Lorré

10.8K likes

A close-up selfie of a person wearing a green cap and black tank top, with the text "FINDING MYSELF AGAIN" overlaid, reflecting the theme of nature therapy and self-discovery.
A scenic view from a rocky cliff overlooking a town or city nestled in a valley, surrounded by bare trees, suggesting a hiking adventure.
A pair of muddy purple and white hiking shoes on a car's floor mat, indicating a recent outdoor activity or hike.
Finding myself again 🥾🐛
Nature therapy is my favorite therapy 🌲 #hiking 🥾 #hiking always #hikingforhealth #embracevulnerability #mentalhealthawareness
Grace McCloskey

Grace McCloskey

15 likes

Finding myself again. 💓
BibbidiBobiBoo | Streamer

BibbidiBobiBoo | Streamer

374 likes

Finding yourself 🌸🎀💗💕
#findingyourself #chooseyourself #betterme #2025goals #girlytok
cozygrly ^ྀི🧸ྀི

cozygrly ^ྀི🧸ྀི

536 likes

finding myself
keniasealey

keniasealey

1 like

A person with braids and a yellow bandana makes a kissing face in front of a vibrant blue, gray, and yellow graffiti wall. The text "Finding Myself" is overlaid in white and pink, with "Lemon8 @highlyflavoredjuicery" at the bottom left.
Finding Myself..
✨One day I woke up and I didn’t know who I was and what I wanted. ✨My granny told me, everyone changes every 5 years & I didn’t realize I did not like all the things I once did until I did ✨I use to go out, drink, smoke, and be out partying.. I never truly liked that lifestyle but it wa
Ayypril143

Ayypril143

18 likes

Lost yourself in love? Read this.
You loved them so much you forgot how to love yourself. You bent, adjusted, and kept giving… until one day, you looked in the mirror and realized you didn’t recognize the person staring back. It wasn’t weakness — it was the hope that if you gave enough, they’d finally see you. But here’s t
nextreadwithjade

nextreadwithjade

191 likes

Finding Myself Again
I hit 30 and realized I didn’t even know who I was anymore. Life had been all about working, helping everyone else, and I totally lost myself. Now I’m slowly finding ME again. Any other women going through this too? #LetsChat #GirlTalk #lemon8contest #AskLemon8
julie

julie

10 likes

A smiling woman with curly hair and glasses, framed by an orange wavy line. The image features a torn paper overlay with "Finding myself...again?" and a sun icon, a yellow butterfly, and a Lemon8 logo with a flower.
Finding myself…again?
This year has been really hard. A lot of great times, but a lot of rough times. I am going to use this app to help me through all the good and all the bad. Just post for fun!! And hopefully meet some new people!🫶🏻 Hopefully there will be a lot of good in 2024✨🫧 #Lemon8Diary #journaling #ment
Carlie:)

Carlie:)

5 likes

An illustration of a person with dark skin wearing a pink bathrobe, a towel on their head, and sunglasses, drinking from a white cup. The word "Confidence." is prominently displayed in white above them on a solid peach background.
Finding Myself Again
As a mom and wife it’s easy to lose yourself and as a mom of 4 I can say I have done just that. I am looking to get to know me again. I want more of sense of self. I think I know exactly what I want but I am not sure how to achieve it. So I am just going to start with one thing at a time. Life has
Yhana B♥️

Yhana B♥️

6 likes

A young woman smiles brightly at the camera, with text overlay 'finding my IDENTITY in my twenties,' reflecting the article's theme of self-discovery during this decade.
A hand holds a coffee cup with latte art and red sprinkles, illustrating the article's point about the 'best worst years' of one's twenties and the uncertainty of where to start.
A person lies on a towel on a sandy beach, looking towards the ocean, accompanying a list of activities like trying crafts and experimenting with style to feel less lost.
finding myself in my twenties
welcome to your twenties! where no one has any clue what they're doing at any point in time, but we're all trying to pretend like we do! this decade is terrifying and exciting, there is so much change, all the time there's so much you can do, but have no clue where to start here
sophia carter ✰

sophia carter ✰

17 likes

A woman holds a purple book and green plants, looking at the camera. A smartphone in the foreground captures her image, mirroring the scene. The image has text overlay 'Finding Myself outside of parenthood & marriage' and a Lemon8 watermark.
Finding Myself
#girlgrowth #lemon8challenge I've recently come to the realization that I have no idea who I actually am. My whole life, I have molded myself into I needed to be for someone else. I did this for my mom, childhood friends, teenage romances, & now as an adult with kids & a husband. I
Danika | Dating Myself

Danika | Dating Myself

3 likes

Finding myself 🦋
The life of being a mom I would do it all over for my baby❤️ Finding Myself after having a baby has been a journey, but we’re living and learning together. I used to reminisce on how I was before having a kid vs me now. I’ve been learning to just accept the new me and learning to love the new ver
Faith Marie💗

Faith Marie💗

7 likes

Finding myself in my 30’s 🫶
I have learned a lot since I have turned 30. I’ve learned that it is ok to be alone & not everyone will like you. It is ok to not have friends or have a very small circle. Not all blood is family & some family aren’t blood. I have an aunt (mom’s friend since HS), cousin (her son) & brot
Brittney🐾

Brittney🐾

160 likes

Finding Yourself in this World ✨
In today's world, finding yourself can feel like trying to navigate through a maze with distractions at every turn. Social media and influencers play a big role in this journey, often leading us astray. We're bombarded with carefully curated images and stories that make us feel like we&
Jatrela

Jatrela

18 likes

A black and white close-up of a person with eyes closed, making a kissing face, and resting their head on their hand. Their hair is styled up, and they are wearing a tank top.
Finding Myself🌸
#my2024 #2024Moments #lemon8contest
𝓐𝓵𝓲༯

𝓐𝓵𝓲༯

2 likes

Finding myself
I never take photos of myself anymore, but that’s about to change!!
MAMASARAH012721

MAMASARAH012721

74 likes

Finding myself again
I’ve been working through these feelings of discomfort and frustration how to come to terms with my feelings and even why I have these feelings and what to do about them
Shelby

Shelby

4 likes

Become obsessed with yourself
This is a straight to the point post for you to become HER Remind yourself daily with this Affirm: Of course it’s me. Who else would it be? Like,comment,& share please 💗 #becomingher #softlife #obsessed #confidence #lemon8contentcreator
Reneeindia🎀

Reneeindia🎀

207 likes

ive been trying to figure out myself lately, ☆
i no longer identify as jellie. will i still post as jellie? yes. however, i am deciding to make a new account for this character as to separate the 2 but still be available for anyone whos interested. due to some of the people following this account, i will unfortunately have to keep it semi priva
Jellie

Jellie

2 likes

Finding myself
Here’s to day of 11 of finding myself. Gibson City
perfectlyimperfect82890

perfectlyimperfect82890

2 likes

Finding myself
sweetlisag4654

sweetlisag4654

6 likes

Self Care Night🌸
I’ve been feeling down lately and I have a lot going on at the moment. So I wanted to take the time to write this little “to-do list” for tonight. I wanted to share it in case someone else is also in need of something like this. While completely this list, I will think about a lot of things. Wh
✨🪷🫧🌸🌷

✨🪷🫧🌸🌷

4470 likes

finding myself
it's a weird thing to say, I'm 35 and I still don't know who I am. slowly figuring it out, but who the fuck am I? I know parts of myself, but not the entirety. but I think that's the fun of life. figuring out exactly who you are and how you wish to fit into the world. welcome
🔥Rae🛸

🔥Rae🛸

2 likes

Finding myself ❤️
Embracing the process of healing and self-discovery❤️🙏🏾
💄💋OKILAH💋💄

💄💋OKILAH💋💄

4 likes

See more