7 Reframes You Need To Hear…

Some reframes don’t feel good at first, but they can completely change how you see your past.

Many survivors think they stayed too long, trusted too much, or lost themselves.

In reality, a lot of those things were survival responses.

Healing often starts when you stop blaming yourself

for the ways you adapted to stay safe.

#healingjourney #emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #traumarecovery #selfgrowth

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