Their inability to meet your standards is not evidence that your standards are too high. Sometimes the problem really is that they lack the effort, maturity, capacity, or character required to give you what you expect. And frankly, that is always their shit to figure out, but not always yours to co

Their inability to meet your standards is not evidence that your standards are too high. Sometimes the problem really is that they lack the effort, maturity, capacity, or character required to give you what you expect. And frankly, that is always their shit to figure out, but not always yours to co

There is a BIG difference between extending someone’s life and extending their suffering. As nurses, we see firsthand how important it is to understand the patient’s prognosis, goals, and quality of life. Not just what can technically be done. More procedures do not automatically mean more time tha

Bartholin glands are tiny glands located on either side of the vaginal opening that help provide lubrication. When the duct becomes blocked, fluid can collect and create a cyst. A cyst can become intensely painful and may require professional treatment rather than something you can safely handle

Motherhood made me even more intentional about the life I’m building. I don’t want my daughter growing up believing that scarcity, struggle, or settling is simply what women are supposed to accept. I want her to see a mother who works hard, has standards, invests in what matters, and still knows ho

I have very little respect for people who turn their issues with you into everyone else’s business. If something I did bothered you, you have every right to address it, but you don’t get points for discussing it with everyone except me. To me, being direct is a basic form of respect, even when th

The standards you have in a relationship should show up most when life gets inconvenient. I’m not interested in being with someone who is only useful when everything is easy, because partnership means showing up when there’s actual work to be done. I refuse to confuse having a girlfriend with havin

Women in women-dominated fields get called “bitches” all the fucking time for having boundaries. We’re expected to be nurturing, accommodating, and endlessly patient, so the second we say no, suddenly we have an attitude. But being direct doesn’t make you a bitch, and being firm doesn’t make you di

A breakup can make you want to reinvent every fucking thing about yourself, but you don’t need to become unrecognizable to prove you healed. There’s a difference between evolving because you genuinely want something different and constantly changing yourself because you’re terrified you’ll never be

Being a nurse means knowing that sometimes the “I’ll be fine” attitude is exactly what gets people killed. Maternal health isn’t something to fuck around with, especially when the risks can change with every pregnancy. And as a mother, you don’t just have yourself to think about. You have little pe

I said what I said, either join the party or LEAVE Finally got my first viral video and just want to make sure the people following me are the ones that ACTUALLY vibe with me. I am FOREVER grateful for the attention BUT I'd hate to some how end up with the wrong type of community and then I can'

I said what I said, either join the party or LEAVE Finally got my first viral video and just want to make sure the people following me are the ones that ACTUALLY vibe with me. I am FOREVER grateful for the attention BUT I'd hate to some how end up with the wrong type of community and then I can'

I said what I said, either join the party or LEAVE Finally got my first viral video and just want to make sure the people following me are the ones that ACTUALLY vibe with me. I am FOREVER grateful for the attention BUT I'd hate to some how end up with the wrong type of community and then I can'

Should I let her in? Something tells me she won't enjoy it as much as she thinks #catslovers #catsoftiktok

A generational black widow if you will, watch out I might not fuck your mom but I might introduce her to the afterlife 😭 #datinglife

Vaginal health is fucking everywhere when there’s something to sell you, yet somehow it’s still too taboo to actually talk about. We’ll market endless products promising to make you smell better, feel cleaner, and “fix” things that may not even need fixing. But give women real education about the

Nursing has taught me that good enough is not the same thing as good care. You have every right to ask questions, seek clarity, and expect the people responsible for your care to meet a fucking high standard. Being a “difficult patient” because you want to understand what is happening to your bod

Domestic violence doesn’t just steal your peace, it steals your confidence. Then motherhood arrives and suddenly every decision feels like another opportunity to prove your abuser right. That’s the trauma talking, not the truth. Healing means realizing they don’t get the final say in who you become

Every breakup is either tuition or wasted time, and too many people pay the price without taking the lesson. Standards aren’t built by finding the perfect partner. They’re built by refusing to repeat the same mistake twice. If every relationship ends and you’re still accepting the same bare minimum

Most people don’t have a boundaries problem, they have a self-respect problem. You keep accepting the bare minimum because deep down you’ve convinced yourself it’s all you deserve. For the love of god raise the standard you hold yourself to, and I promise you that your tolerance for mediocre people