I think it's just me? [HSP]

- Yeah.

- Yeah.

The other day, when I was meeting with a friend

I got a call saying, "The train is late and will be delayed by about 5 minutes."

I just needed to go to the bathroom.

He said, "Can I go to the bathroom?"

I went to the bathroom nearby.

Unexpectedly, the place was far away and it was a little lined up

if this is the case, on the contrary

I might make you wait. "

Turn around in front of the bathroom.

to return to the meeting place.

although i took a mysterious action

(Long explanation)

I asked my friend, "Did you go to the bathroom?"

When I was asked and told this story

With a face that I really don't understand

(It's not a bad feeling at all lol)

I was told, "What! You should just go normally."

That's right after all, and

I felt indescribable. Lol

it's hard to put into words

From a long time ago, I have been "good at being spoiled by people."

I can't do that.

As in this story, "Ask people to wait."

Starting with the fact that

Make a little request or something

Confess your troubles, etc.

a little bit of leaning on the other person

I'm not good at it.

Usually something about the people around you.

I tend to be tingling, but

Regardless of waiting, being asked to do something

When it comes to being confided in your worries

Even though it seems like "I'm glad you can rely on me"

(Well, the request depends on the content and the person, lol)

When I become the side I ask for, I just can't get motivated.

I wrote at the beginning, "I'm sorry to keep you waiting.

Go right in front of the bathroom and make a U-turn. "

I think the story is a prominent example, but

Like this, if I had to say

by self-strangling behavior

Even just a stressful day

Making things even harder with your own hands

I feel like I can't deny the feeling of being tailored.

So, recently I have

"Live in balance" in general life

That is the current challenge.

Maybe because black and white thinking is ingrained

Everything is about "Do you do it or not?"

we tend to make extreme choices

At such times, it is a specialty (?)

Making full use of the ability to "think from the other person's perspective"

No matter how much you rely on your partner

after properly assessing whether it will not be a burden

From now on, little by little, in moderation

Actions such as "rely" and "ask"

I want to be able to take...

now, instead of just looking for ways to avoid stress

While considering how to reduce the seeds of stress

With this troublesome personality

I want to get along well.

Delicate-san # delicate I want to connect with Delicate-san # hsp # hsp temperament