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Is this just me?

- Yeah.

- Yeah.

When I met someone the other day...

Have them drive you to the station on the way home unexpectedly.

An event (?) has occurred, but

On a rainy day, from the car to the covered area

There was also a little distance

I thought, "I have to go quickly so that I don't get wet in the rain."

To the place where there is a roof

I m sorry I tried to send you. (

Because I thought, "I have to make you not care."

There was a feeling that the time to leave became somewhat plain

For a while after being alone

Mysteriously, if you replay that scene in your brain over and over again

"It was unnatural after all, wasn't it...?"

"I mean, it felt bad, didn't it...?"

i was given a ride.

besides, it was the last farewell scene.

Don t worry about the rain.

You should have behaved politely... "

"Did you think I was weird...

Maybe they thought it was bad. "

i held a grand reflection meeting alone

"I wonder why this happens every time."

I kind of got sick of it.

Big and small every day.

i'm a mass producer of black history

Surprisingly (?) the number of appearances is large

Leaving related mistakes like this one.

Of course, when I'm with people

Something said, "Oh, I might have failed just now..."

Elements that will become points for reflection later

and it's something that will produce

When I say goodbye, "I can finally be alone...!"

Do you lose your mind with the joy of saying

The rate of acting a little unnatural

I feel like it will increase compared to other scenes.

In addition, parting depends on the person

it also depends on the situation

Very difficult to master,

For example, the length of the hand

If it's too long, it feels greasy

i don't even know when to quit.

However, if it's too short, it feels bad this time

being separated from the other person and being clean

It could be received, and

There are countless points to think about

Behavior that puts out the passing line

It is quite a difficult task to realize.

But, so much so far

Despite thinking about

That is the word zero conversion

I don't know if there are any (laughs)

It's also annoying to be judged as just a "bad guy"

Even if it becomes somewhat unnatural from now on

Behave like a "nice person."

I'm thinking about keeping it in mind. lol

Perhaps because of his perfectionist personality.

Your own actions.

As if poking the corner of a jubako

It tends to be strangely strict and detailed, but

It's probably impossible to take Manten by behavior

Especially if people are involved.

From now on, I will loosen my senses a little more

Don't panic and make a noise about the events in front of you

To behave in the best way at that time.

I will try to live while being conscious again.

Delicate-san # delicate # hsp # hsp temperament # hsp There is

2025/5/17 Edited to

... Read moreHSP(ハイセンシティブパーソン)という言葉は、特に敏感で繊細な感受性を持つ人々を指します。この特性を持つ人々は、他者の感情や環境の変化に非常に敏感であり、その影響を受けやすいことがあります。特に別れ際の振る舞いや感情の反応に悩むことが多いのが特徴的です。 自分を優先することができず、相手に気を配るあまり、自身の感情を抑えてしまうことがよくあります。このことが不自然な行動を生む要因になり、結果的に自己反省を引き起こします。また、他者とのコミュニケーションにおいて、丁寧さや配慮を意識するあまり、逆に不自然さを感じることもあります。 HSPの人々は、他者の評価を非常に気にする傾向があり、自分がどのように受け取られるかが常に心に引っかかります。そのため、別れ際の短い時間の中でも緊張感や焦りを感じやすく、これがまた不自然さにつながります。 振る舞いを気にするあまり、心の中で「感じ悪い」と思われたのではないかと心配することが多いですが、意外と他者は同じようなことで悩んでいることが多いのです。この特性を持つ人々が少しでもリラックスし、自然体での振る舞いを目指すためには、日々の自己受容や、小さな成功体験を積むことが大切です。自分自身を少しずつ許して、他者とのより良い関係を築くことが、最終的にはスムーズなコミュニケーションと心の安定につながるのです。