I think it's just me? [HSP]

- Yeah.

- Yeah.

Recently, a little

While communicating with people in the company

i have some work to do.

Above all, the other person

At the office with the boss of the mood shop.

Talking to people in the first place.

even though it involves a lot of pain

Just because the other person is the other person, it takes extra nerve

It's a lot of stress every day.

The action of "talking to people"

At first glance, it doesn't seem like much

Actually, it's a surprisingly laborious behavior.

Start by organizing what you want to convey

What words and ways to convey

And how to talk at what timing

I have a lot to think about.

I feel comfortable being involved

It's still better if it's a nice opponent

Like the boss of our company

It's really hard to be a person with a habit...!

At the timing when you're in a bad mood

When I talk to you

That alone could be the worst response

Every time I talk to you, you risk your life. Lol

But people who don't care about this really don't seem to care.

(Excuse me to say this.)

a colleague who is mentally strong and a little insensitive

Every time, with a response of "By the way, did something happen?"

With the momentum of "I'm frustrated, that's my fault"

Even when I'm in a bad mood, I'll talk to you hard

On the other hand, I feel a little envious,,

Of course, not taking into account the other party's convenience

the risk of buying antipathy is also high

If you can stay in that stance

Surely more every day

I think I can live comfortably

"I wonder why I'm so nervous."

Sometimes I feel like I'm losing something

There are quite a few.

Well, looking at myself so far

including this case

Everything that I really care about

Trying not to worry about it

Because it's not realistic after all

All I can do is probably...

Efficiency of things other than the parts that bother me.

Overall behavior, always with efficiency in mind

There are places where you use more energy than people

The part that can save labor, both thoughts and actions

I want to thoroughly eliminate waste, and

I'm just thinking.

There are many troublesome places with this personality, but

As a result, "I can't read the atmosphere and buy antipathy"

It is also true that such risks are considerably reduced

Make the most of what you can

conversely, the part that tends to act negatively

Try to reduce it as much as possible

I hope we can get along wisely.

Delicate-san # delicate I want to connect with Delicate-san # hsp # hsp temperament