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it’s okay if you don’t love it

this body carried, housed and nourished two baby’s for nine long months each, before they were even born.

it was the vessel that gave them life, and loved them unconditionally, before i could even hold them in my arms.

it felt their kicks, flips, hiccups, and grand entrance into this world.

my body stretched, grew and contorted, so that my perfect little baby’s could get big, strong and ready to meet us.

it worked hard.

my body was someone’s H O M E.

i earned e v e r y single curve, jiggle and scar.

you don’t have to LOVE your new body, but you should be damn proud of the miracles that it’s created.

#embracevulnerability #momlife #bodypositivity #mombod #csection #momadvice

2024/3/27 Edited to

Postpartum body image is a delicate subject for many mothers. The transition after pregnancy can be challenging, making it crucial to focus on self-acceptance rather than societal pressures. Studies show that body positivity can positively influence mental health for new moms. Engaging with communities focused on #bodypositivity can offer support and encouragement. Embracing vulnerability and sharing experiences may foster connections among mothers, helping them see that they are not alone in their journey. It's important to remember that every scar, every stretch mark tells a story of strength and resilience. Consider exploring ways to nourish both your body and mind, such as engaging in light exercise, pursuing hobbies that excite you, or connecting with other moms to share uplifting stories. This support system can uplift your spirits and foster a healthy relationship with your body. Remember: it’s not about perfection but appreciation for the amazing capabilities of your body.

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kanami ☆ かなみ

you’re beautiful! i would not have guessed you carried two little babies already! you’re killin it mamas!! 🩷🩷

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