Breastfeeding should not be painful!!

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If breastfeeding feels pinchy, it’s usually a sign your baby’s latch is too shallow, and a few small adjustments can make a big difference. A deep latch not only protects your nipples but also helps your baby get more milk with less effort. Have you ever struggled with a painful latch? Comment y
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A woman holding a baby in a carrier takes a mirror selfie. Text overlay states: "-it's not normal for it to hurt -just because you don't feel a let down doesn't mean it isn't happening."
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The image displays a breast with a red, inflamed area, being gently touched by a hand. Overlay text reads 'MASTITIS An infection of the breast tissue', visually representing the condition described in the article.
MASTITIS
Mastitis can occur most frequently in lactating women who: 1. Have cracked or blistered nipples. 2. Have clogged ducts that are not relieved. 3. There is sudden high levels of stress such as returning to work or anything that leads to change in normal daily routine. SYMPTOMS: • Sudden flu l
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