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Why do some people agree to be third?

Speaking of the third hand or gig of someone who already has a boyfriend, it's painful to fall in love with the owner, but some people are willing to be third, maybe for some reason, from asking a friend who was in that situation.

My friend replied to me that because I love him, I like him very much and can't cut off from him, so I can't tolerate it like that. Like a song that even if it's wrong, still love, do not understand, love constantly miss. That's it, it can't be in the choice point. But I think that one day he will walk out of that point. Or maybe in another case, a man or a woman deceives that no one is secretly dating me and we become the third hand to become me.

Because of that, we think that someone's willing to be third-handed or in a certain state, even if it's wrong, but he has his reasons, but looking at the right boyfriend, that's it, it's wrong anyway. Believe that anyone who has been in that state will someday walk out.

♪ Third hand # Love, relationships # Q & A heart problem # Unfaithful girlfriend

2024/7/3 Edited to

... Read moreจากที่เราเคยคุยกับเพื่อน (และเคยเห็นหลายเคสใกล้ตัว) เหตุผลที่ “ยอมเป็นมือที่สาม” มันไม่ได้แปลว่าคนๆ นั้นอยากทำร้ายใครเสมอไป บางทีมันคือการติดอยู่ในความรู้สึกบางอย่างจนมองไม่เห็นทางออก 1) รักมาก/ผูกพันจนถอนตัวไม่ไหว หลายคนเริ่มจาก “คุยแล้วรู้สึกดี” และความสัมพันธ์มันค่อยๆ ลึกขึ้น พอจะถอยก็เหมือนขาดอะไรไป ยิ่งถ้าอีกฝ่ายให้ความหวังเป็นระยะๆ เช่น บอกว่าจะเลิกกับแฟน “เร็วๆ นี้” คนที่รอเลยยิ่งยอมทน 2) โดนหลอกแบบไม่รู้ตัว อันนี้เจอบ่อยเหมือนกัน—เขาบอกว่าโสด หรือบอกว่า “เลิกกันแล้วแต่ยังอยู่บ้านเดียวกัน” สุดท้ายเรากลายเป็นคนอื่นแบบงงๆ ถ้าเริ่มมีสัญญาณแปลกๆ เช่น ไม่เคยพาไปเจอเพื่อน ไม่ยอมเปิดโซเชียลต่อหน้า โทรหากันได้แค่บางเวลา หรือหายไปทุกคืน/ทุกวันหยุด อาจต้องหยุดเช็กความจริงให้ชัด 3) ความมั่นใจในตัวเองต่ำ/คิดว่าไม่คู่ควรกับความรักดีๆ บางคนไม่ได้เชื่อว่าตัวเองจะมีความสัมพันธ์ที่ “ถูกเลือก” เลยยอมอยู่ในความสัมพันธ์ที่ต้องแอบ ต้องรอ ต้องทน ทั้งที่ลึกๆ ก็เจ็บ 4) ติดวงจรความหวัง (Hope cycle) วันนี้ดี พรุ่งนี้หาย มะรืนมาง้อ—มันทำให้เราเหมือนติดรางวัลเป็นครั้งคราว เลยเลิกยากมาก ต่อให้รู้ว่าผิดหรือรู้ว่าเหนื่อยก็ยังวนกลับไป ถ้าตอนนี้คุณกำลังอยู่ในสถานะ “เป็นมือที่สาม” (ตั้งใจหรือไม่ตั้งใจ) สิ่งที่ช่วยได้จริงๆ คือ “ตั้งขอบเขต” ให้ตัวเองก่อน เช่น - ขอความชัดเจนเป็นคำตอบเดียว: เขาโสดจริงไหม/ยังคบอยู่ไหม - ถ้ายังมีแฟนอยู่ ให้บอกเงื่อนไขชัดๆ ว่าจะไม่สานต่อในความสัมพันธ์ลับ - ตัดช่องทางที่ทำให้ใจอ่อน: mute/unfollow/ลบแชตเก่า และหลีกเลี่ยงการคุยตอนเหงา - หาเพื่อนหรือคนที่ไว้ใจให้ช่วยดึงสติ (ไม่ต้องผ่านคนเดียว) อีกอย่างที่อยากฝากคือ อย่าให้ “มีมมือทาบอก” หรือคำพูดแนวๆ ตลกๆ ในโซเชียลมาลดทอนความเจ็บของเรา เรื่องนี้ไม่ใช่เรื่องขำสำหรับคนที่ถูกนอกใจและคนที่กำลังติดอยู่ในความสัมพันธ์ลับเหมือนกัน สุดท้าย ต่อให้ตอนนี้ยังออกมาไม่ได้ทันที ก็ไม่ได้แปลว่าคุณอ่อนแอ แค่ค่อยๆ ถอยทีละก้าวก็พอ วันหนึ่งคุณจะกลับมาเลือกตัวเองได้ และได้ความรักที่ไม่ต้องแอบ ไม่ต้องรอ และไม่ต้องรู้สึกผิด

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👁️ The Power of the Third Eye: Seeing Beyond What Eyes Can See There’s a difference between looking and seeing and that’s where your third eye comes in. The Third Eye Chakra (also called Ajna) is your inner compass, the energetic center located between your eyebrows that’s tied to intuition,
ElevatedByShell

ElevatedByShell

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An abstract illustration shows two figures, one pink and one blue, in a doggy style position. The text overlay reads: "3 REASONS WHY DOGGY STYLE HURTS."
The text "1. YOU'RE NOT TURNED ON ENOUGH" is displayed, followed by an explanation that insufficient arousal and foreplay can lead to discomfort during doggy style due to lack of vaginal tenting.
The text "2. YOU'RE SUCKING IN AND HOLDING TENSION" is shown, explaining that sucking in the belly and pelvic floor tension can cause discomfort and hinder deeper penetration during sex.
Three reasons why doggy style hurts !!!!
#shareyourthoughts #femininecare #letstalkaboutit
SweetspotFcare

SweetspotFcare

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A couple embraces, with text overlay stating "WHY WE DON'T HAVE KIDS AT 36 How it makes me feel & How I respond" and their relationship duration.
A close-up of a couple embracing, with text explaining they don't know why they don't have kids and their decision not to pursue fertility testing.
A close-up of a couple holding hands, with text describing how the question of not having kids used to make the author feel depressed and embarrassed.
Why we don’t have kids at 36
Brian and I have been together since we were 15, just a little over 20 years and married for 13. We used to always get asked “Why don’t you have kids?” And I used to absolutely hate that question. As years have passed and trying for so long, it just never happened. As I spend more time wit
Monica Vargas

Monica Vargas

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A woman with dark hair and makeup lies on a couch, looking at the camera. Text overlay reads: 'Reasons why I'm Going celibate'. The Lemon8 logo and username '@youronetruelover' are visible at the bottom left.
A white background with black text titled 'Reason 1: For celibacy ⚡️ I don't like how I feel during sex...'. Bullet points describe feeling out of tune, not in control of pleasure, and pleasure coming last during sex.
A white background with black text continuing 'Reason 1'. Bullet points detail feeling used, mentally lost trying to please others, and men rushing into sex, making her feel forced.
⚡️Reasons why I’m going celibate⚡️
⚡️ I’m starting now. I know it’s a long journey, but I feel ready for the next chapters of having an internal glow up. For my mental state, I know I have to start somewhere, because of my history, I have to work harder than most people to figure out how intimacy works for me. ⚡️ Another reason
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c.doug ♡

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Why You May Be Self-Sabotaging 😅
Hello #GloUppers ! While we discuss the topic of self-sabotage… Lets uncover some reasons you may have a bad habit of it. Self sabotage is such a tricky subject because we ALL do it, however, most people don’t know how to identify it in themselves. (Me being one of those people). If you
Darrel Kennedy

Darrel Kennedy

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A page from 'The Four Agreements' book, open to page 70, with several sentences underlined. The text discusses how people lie to themselves and make assumptions in relationships, believing their love can change others, and defines real love as accepting people as they are.
The Four Agreements
This is the third agreement: Don’t make assumptions. “You lie to yourself just to make yourself right.” Whew! 😰 Hit me right in the feels! #thefouragreements #growth #tbrlist #reading #healingmotivation
nichelle2205

nichelle2205

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Reasons Why Self Intimacy Is Important!
5️⃣ reason why self intimacy is important for your personal development and healing! Often times we expect to learn ourselves through experiences with others. Conflicting self disappointment due to thinking we know what we want and how we want to feel but in true reality we have no idea. Learnin
Vividly Profound

Vividly Profound

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A black and white image showing blurry human forms, with text overlay asking "Are they lovers? No, worse...." promoting a romantasy book.
A black and white image of two hands intertwined on a textured surface, with text describing a fated, complex relationship from a book.
A book cover for "Illusion of Stars" by Sarah Marie Page, featuring a black background with white and pink floral designs and crossed daggers.
Are they lovers? 🥺
Soft romantasy for the soft girlies ✨🤍🥹 When her best friend is found 💀deleted💀 on the beaches, Isabel's marching orders are clear: woo an enemy general's sexy son & steal his kingdom-shattering weapon. But as she draws closer to her target, her own feelings may destroy the mission.
SarahMarie Page

SarahMarie Page

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The enemy is clever
I am so sorry and disappointed with my self because most of the mistakes that I have made were just a result of my lack of understanding of the word of God. And that is the only reason why I am here telling you to read your Bible. The enemy knows the power of the word of God in our lives and he wil
Read your Bible

Read your Bible

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A woman in a teal bikini top and white cover-up smiles at the camera. Text overlay reads "7 Reasons Why Your Nipples Hurt When You Touch Them (& You're Not Pregnant)", with "Lemon8" and "@therecoveryrebel" at the bottom.
A black and white mirror selfie of a woman in a leopard print bikini. Text lists reasons for sore nipples: Hormonal Shifts, Friction & Chafing (suggesting a comfortable bra), Skin Irritation or Allergies (suggesting gentle body soap and detergent), and Cold Weather Sensitivity.
A black and white mirror selfie of a woman in a dark bikini. Text lists reasons for sore nipples: Hidden Infections (suggesting probiotics), Caffeine & Diet Sensitivity (suggesting matcha and seaweed snacks), and Lymphatic Stagnation (suggesting dry brushing and leg-up-the-wall pose).
7 Reasons Your Nipples Are Sore
Ever thought, "Why are my nipples sore when I’m not pregnant or on my period?” Same. It’s actually pretty common among women. It’s normally you your body signaling to you that it needs something so here’s some info on why it happens & what to do: 1️⃣ Hormonal Shifts PMS, birth contro
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Abby

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