Let Them Talk
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Let Them…
I was hesitant to get this last summer, but I’m so glad I did. A meaningful tattoo says so much. It’s more than just Let Them meanings… it’s letting go of the past, of people who did you wrong, or situations that were so great or healthy.. letting go of bad memories. To the people who are on th
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LET THEM
Your fear of getting judged is holding you back. I get it, worrying about what others think is natural. But are their judgments really worth holding yourself back for? People will always have opinions, but at the end of the day, they’re not the ones living your life, YOU ARE. They’re
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LET THEM.
Family. Friends. Coworkers. It doesn’t matter! Let them. If they want to leave, let them. If they chose someone else, let them. If they don’t support you, let them. If they don’t invite you, let them. Stop wasting YOUR energy worrying about someone else. This is one of the best things
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✨ Visitation Dreams ✨ Let’s talk about them!
Happy Saturday! 💫 I hope everyone is having a lovely weekend. Let’s dive into the topic of ✨ VISITATION DREAMS ✨ The reason I decided to make this post is because last night I had another visitation dream with someone I miss dearly. And I realized as I was telling a friend about it, that some
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High-Value Women Don’t….
Let's talk about what high-value women don't do because, trust me, I've learned a thing or two on this journey. THEY DONT — 1.Seek Validation: High-value women don't constantly seek validation from others. They are self-assured and confident in their worth, not relying on exte
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LET IT END🫵🏽 Let her go! ❤️🔥
Thankfully, using discernment and these tips has help me BE A BETTER FRIEND. Not only notice those who weren’t good friends to me! Sometimes people aren’t supposed to be in your life as you enter new chapters and as you turn the pages, and that’s okay. Doesn’t mean you have to beef with each other
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Let’s have a girl talk 💐
1. Needing space. I used to feel guilty about this, but I’ve learned that having space is ESSENTIAL. Not selfish. Sometimes I just need to be in my own world, and that’s okay. My peace matters the most to me. 2. Taking a while to respond. Sometimes I simply just don’t have the energy. It doesn
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Signs he is a KEEPER! 🫶🏻
Hello friends! 🍋 Okay, let’s talk about first dates! We all know the awkwardness of trying to figure out if the person we are meeting is actually worth our time. When I was having my dating life I notice that if he’s genuinely listening and asking questions about you, that’s a huge win! I
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Top qualities men find extremely attractive
Hi friends! 🍋 Let’s talk about something fun: the little things men find super attractive: by my husband! It’s not always about looks; often, it’s the small qualities that catch their attention. It can be the way you laugh, your confidence, or just being your authentic self, there are ce
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Let’s Talk Tantrums
Tantrums are our bodies way of releasing negative emotions by transferring that energy onto those around us. We think it will lessen the negativity we are feeling but it really amplifies it by surrounding us with more people that that negativity has infected. Learning how to self-regulate and help
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🎯 For My Homeboys and Ladies in Relationships 💋
You know how the right outfit makes you feel like you’re untouchable? Well, the same goes for your fragrance—it’s that finishing touch that leaves them wanting more. And if you’re partnered up, having a signature scent? It’s like your secret weapon. 💨 For the Homeboys Fellas, listen: A high-v
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DISCIPLINE MAKES YOU SEXY 🥵🔥❤️🔥
Discipline is HOW you’ll enter your hot girl era - physically AND mentally. I used to be someone who had a hard time following through for myself. This would be for SO many things… I’d put off going to the gym. I lacked self-control when trying to eat better. I let myself procrastinate and watch
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REAL TALK: vent abt ur insecurities
let’s uplift each other in the comments, share an insecurity and uplift someone else who commented! i would say i’m insecure about my level of intelligence. i feel like people think i’m smart but ive made so many mistakes that go against that idea. silly mistakes that i feel like most ppl woul
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Gaslighting vs. Respectful Phrases
I am sharing some phrases for all of us to differentiate between gaslighting and respectful phrases. They'll steer us away from gaslighting and toward respectful communication, all in the name of keeping our emotional well-being in check and our connections positive and supportive. Let me d
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💋 Dark Fem Energy Guide‼️Part 2.
💋 Happy Valentine’s Day! XOXO to all the single girlies out there like me. A day like this can be so hard! I have my moments when I’m lonely, but I’ve been enjoying being single, celibate, and tapping into my inner, dark feminine energy. I feel so much more powerful without a man, friends or family
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🍒HOW I DATE ETHICALLY🍒
Oh my I heard there was a woman's day event today in NYC and boy do I wish I was there today. My birthday was the day before yesterday so I decided to go on a trip but let me tell you of course I'm gonna post for my followers and for any future followers The day after and I wish I was t
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How we helped our kids talk before 2!🥰
🔴 Disclaimer: I am not a specialist and am only sharing what has helped my kids learn to speak in sentences before they reach 2. I understand not all children move at the same speed and there is nothing wrong with children who end up talking later. This is just some helpful to tips that might benef
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🕊️ **Silent Relationship Killers** 🕊️
Hey everyone! 💖 Today, let’s talk about something that often goes unnoticed but can deeply impact our relationships: silent relationship killers. These are subtle behaviors and habits that, over time, can erode the foundation of even the strongest bonds. 1. **Lack of Communication** 📵 - We oft
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the truth about office small talk...💬
you might hate it...but office small talk is necessary if you want to move up and make more $$ at work 📈 you need to be able to talk to anyone! coworkers, your boss, your vice president, other leaders, etc and the best way to talk to anyone is: 1) ask a LOT of questions—this makes you seem i
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How to Discern God’s Voice from the Alternative
How do I know that that voice is from God??? God’s voice fills you with comfort. It calms you, excites you, warms you. It provides a sense of peace, understanding. It makes you feel loved, heard and understood! A voice from God is like: “Quit your job, doors will open for you. Your worries
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convo starters for your next date 🍵🍸🕊️
it’s totally normal to get a little nervous before a date whether it’s with a friend, potential partner, someone you recently started dating, a coworker or in-law. here are 10 questions / talking points to keep in your back pocket. I feel like you could talk about each one for at least 5-20 min
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💡Girl Talk (stop hiding your feelings)🩷
💡 I keep seeing all over social media (mainly TikTok) this concept of women staying silent or bottling their feelings for people. (Usually for men) Mostly they say, “I’m not gonna text him” or I see videos on how to manifest him back into your life without communicating to him your feelings using
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Getting to the Root of Feelings
Hello Lovelies let’s talk about feelings! 🖤 #journeywithaly Feelings can be complicated… theres no shame in not understanding or being able to figure them out. Sometimes emotions can be a tangled mess of anger, confusion, sadness, etc. And it’s hard to figure out what exactly is causing the
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College talk
As a current sophomore in college, I have already learned so much in these past 2 years. Most lessons believe it or not occurred this year. Freshman year was a little dull lol. I met a lot more people starting this year and put myself more out there and it definitely led to a lot of new memories an
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How to Calm Toddler Tantrums 👶🏽😆
My daughter has Tantrums and she is now 2years old. I see that when I do these amazing tips they work and she now has less and less tantrums. Here are practical strategies for handling tantrums effectively: 1. Stay Calm • Take deep breaths and keep your voice calm and steady. • Avoid yel
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Ashley and Tyler are Over - Let’s talk about it!
MY SHAYLAAAAAAA ‼️😫 If you didn’t know, Ashley and Tyler from Season 7 of Love is Blind have called it quits - well Ashley has. In the third slide you’ll see the message she shared with us on her IG story regarding the split. Sprinkling in there a “After much reflection,” and a “Not a decision m
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Gaslighting Phrases VS Respectful Phrases
Here’s a comparison of gaslighting phrases and respectful phrases to help differentiate between manipulative and supportive communication in a relationship: Gaslighting Phrases These phrases often aim to make the other person doubt their perceptions, feelings, or experiences: 1. “
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dating biblically
Let’s be honest: dating as we know it isn’t in the Bible. There were betrothals, arranged marriages, and cultural norms that feel worlds apart from our swipe-right generation… so what does it mean to “date biblically”? 🤍Start with purpose, not pressure Biblical relationships are rooted in inte
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“How to Respond When You’re Not Ready to Talk”
Try saying: ‘Thanks for saying that. I hear you and I appreciate you trying to make things right.’ Or: ‘I’m still a little hurt, and I need some time to process everything before we can really talk about it.’” “Express your emotions honestly: ‘I’m feeling really sad/angry/hurt right now, and
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What Men Say & What Men Mean
Recently, I’ve been feeling discouraged and frustrated, wondering why I never seem to get past the talking stage. I’d get love-bombed, voice my expectations, and then they’d switch up on me. I couldn’t understand why. For a while, I thought maybe something was wrong with me. But looking back, I rea
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how to be UNBOTHERED and detach 🤍🦋
2024 is the year you enter your UNBOTHERED GIRL ERA. Let’s talk about why you should detach and how to. What is detachment? Detachment is the detachment to the OUTCOME. The reason this is important is because it’s incredibly painful to be attached to certain outcomes, scenarios, people, and thin
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Email templates I use to get UGC deals ✨
Out of all the questions I get on Lemon8, the most asked one is “what do I say when I email brands?” So… let’s talk about it!! First things first I want you to ask yourself are you trying to be an influencer, or are you trying to be a UGC creator? Influencer = posting brand deals on your
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why is it *so* taboo?! 😵😵💫🤫🫠😬😑
This is a topic I’ve been thinking about a lot recently. As women, we often aren’t taught how to deal with money, or accepted in spaces that deal with financial conversations. We are told to tackle the “home” while the man tackles the “harder” things, aka finances, etc. I found an interesting ar
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How to Talk About Hard Things Without Arguing 💬🥊
Not gonna lie—hard conversations used to end in silence, snapping, or someone walking away. But this time… we actually heard each other. No yelling. No ego. Just understanding. Here’s what worked for us: 1. We didn’t talk in the heat of the moment. We gave it space. A few deep breaths and
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