曾经，我以为爱是妥协、是忍耐、是用回忆盖住伤害。 每次不小心翻看过去的照片，都会忍不住问自己： 我们明明有过那么多美好， 为什么最后还是走到了离婚？ 那些美好的回忆，如今却是锐利的刀，一次次伤我比一次次更深 那些照片里看起来很幸福的我， 其实心里已经很累了。 但我一直不愿意面对， 我用那些美好瞬间来麻痹自己， 告诉自己：“只要再坚持一下，也许就好了。” 可其实，我早就失去了自己。变成了你最烦的老婆。 那个以前的我，她只是太想要被爱，太怕失败，太相信回忆可以救回一段已经破碎的感情。你总是用甜言蜜语把我哄成功，一次次的谎言，我总是认真地相信。你说你变了，改了，后悔

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