#greenscreen God… respectfully, I think there may have been a clerical error with the D’s. 😭😭😭 #dollyparton #countrymusic #wrongd

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Baby, he saw that bonnet and started thinking about MELATONIN. 😭💀 Before y’all fight me, I’m not saying a bonnet makes you less worthy, less beautiful, or less deserving of being approached. I’m saying PAY ATTENTION TO THE CONTEXT. Because sometimes he’s not looking at you thinking: 🌹 “

Ladies… have you ever noticed that some men will ignore your suggestions for YEARS… Then another man says the exact same thing on a podcast and suddenly it’s a revelation? 💋😂 It’s not always about impressing women. Sometimes it’s about earning respect from other men. Fresh haircut. Fre

Fat women deserve to be loud, visible, respected, desired, and fully human without apologizing for taking up space. @Samyra 💋 #FatWomenSpeakingUp #PlusSizeVisibility #BlackPlusSizeWomen #FatphobiaUnfiltered #BodyLiberationConversation

Everybody says they want Black women to experience a soft life… Until it requires us to have boundaries. Until we choose peace over performance. Until we say “no.” Until we prioritize rest. Until we ask for reciprocity. Until we stop carrying what was never ours to carry. A sof

It’s easy to cling to charlatans like the DL Whisperer to hype up your fear but if you open your ears you can learn something… One thing I’ll always appreciate is learning from people who see relationships through a different lens. The biggest lesson? ✨ Love yourself first. ✨ Stop giving

Turns out the men y’all swear don’t exist… are simply hanging out in different zip codes. 🥂 There really are men who enjoy planning dates, paying the bill, keeping their word, and making a woman’s life easier. Crazy concept, I know. If every relationship you’ve experienced has convinced yo

Respectfully… if you’re going to conduct a TED Talk on what women “need”… Please include a budget. 💋 If you can’t finance a solution just hush up. You think women need to be more submissive but don’t have no solutions to any problems??? Chile please. P.S. If you’re learning how to stop

Useless as in… ✨ Not volunteering to solve every grown adult’s problems. ✨ Not becoming everyone’s unpaid therapist. ✨ Not proving your worth through exhaustion. ✨ Not carrying relationships, families, and workplaces on your back. ✨ Not believing your value is measured by how much you sacrif

Tonight’s snack: prosciutto, Boursin garlic & herb cheese, fresh tomatoes, red onion, a pickle, balsamic vinegar, Everything But the Bagel seasoning, and Kinder’s “The Blend” Green seasoning—all rolled into the perfect savory bite. Simple, fresh, and packed with flavor. 🤌🏾 What’s your favorite l

I know this one is going to make the comments spicy… 🍷💋 I’ve never believed in the phrase “homewrecker.” A relationship doesn’t end because someone tempted a committed person. It ends because someone made a decision. If your relationship can be taken by someone simply showing up… The

Everybody keeps saying, “Decenter men.” I think we should start by decentering our insecurities. 💋 Because healed people don’t wait years to weaponize old wounds. When your identity is no longer attached to proving you won, exposing someone, or getting the last laugh… you stop performing y

#creatorsearchinsights Stop refreshing your phone looking for effort that was never sent 💋 Somewhere in this world is a man making reservations, booking flights, buying flowers, introducing her to his family, and apparently climbing buildings. Meanwhile, you’re arguing with a man who “didn’

#creatorsearchinsights #divinefemininemirror If you can’t call him when your tire blows out, your rent is due, your flight gets canceled, or you’re stranded on the side of the road… Why exactly does he think he qualifies for the fun parts? 💋 Accessibility is earned, baby. Emergency con

#creatorsearchinsights Skincare for the face. Discernment for the soul. 💋 As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that not every prayer needs to be about finding love. Sometimes the prayer is: “Please remove anyone who mistakes my kindness for access, my patience for weakness, or my standa

#creatorsearchinsights Skincare for the face. Discernment for the soul. 💋 As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realized that not every prayer needs to be about finding love. Sometimes the prayer is: “Please remove anyone who mistakes my kindness for access, my patience for weakness, or my standa

#creatorsearchinsights The rules are simple: You disappear? I book a reservation. You play hard to get? I become impossible to reach. You waste my time? I suddenly develop an interest in yachts, wine, and other men with calendars. Strange how healing starts to happen when your stan