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✨ Stop thinking for a happy life. 💖

If anyone asks me if I've read this book,

What lessons have been applied to life?

The answers can be many.

But if you change to asking

Which lessons can be deployed "immediately"?

There is only one solution.

"Rule ten out of ten." ✨

Rules to help us become more conscious in every moment of living.

The ten-out-ten rule model is very simple, just stop and ask yourself every time you do something.

* How many points will we give our actions (out of ten) *

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To achieve greater understanding.

Let me give you an example in a book.

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Let's say you're in a supermargate.

And you're walking in a cart full of what you're going to buy.

Head to the cashier to pay. Meanwhile, you see another customer carrying one item and walking to the same cashier as you.

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At this point, what do you do between

1) Walk faster to outpace that customer and get into paying.

2) Let that customer pay first because one item doesn't take long.

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Neither choice is wrong.

But the scores are not the same.

Do you think that if you choose number 1), how much would you rate yourself?

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Personally, if it were me, I would give you 7 out of 10, because we're not actually wrong, but there are better alternatives.

That's number 2), which is the right choice to get 10 out of 10. 💯

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This is just one example of a book.

In fact, in every day of our lives,

There are many more events to make this decision.

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So the next time you have a chance to score ten out of ten,

I invite you to consider whether or not to do it.

Because besides giving yourself a full ten points,

There's also a chance of positive energy. 💖

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Summary and compilation from the book

Hundred baht question and million baht question

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If you like this type of article, you can follow the bear bump together. I will try to share good ideas and read them often.

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Thank you, sir. 🙏

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WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY?
Being happy can come from the little aspects of life just as much as the big ones. Here’s a short list of ways I make myself happier, most of these take 5-10 minutes! What makes you happy? What would you add to this list? Until next time:)~ Celeste🛹 #happiness #happy #behappy #ment
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celeste ☆

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How To Be Productive & Stop Procrastinating 💪🏼✨
Ready to tackle that to-do list, but feeling a bit “where do I start?” I know I do all the time 😣 Let’s get into some realistic tips ⬇️: • To-Do Lists 📋 Write down only a few things. 3 main goals, max. Sometimes less is more—it’s easier to stay motivated if you actually finish the list! • 8
Gen 🦋

Gen 🦋

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A shopping cart holds several bouquets of flowers, including white ranunculus, pink roses, pink tulips, and baby's breath, along with a small container of blueberries. The image is titled "How I Started Romanticizing My Life" with the subtitle "small changes, soft life."
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I Stopped Surviving & Started Living ✨
I used to think romanticizing your life meant traveling all the time, having money, or having everything figured out 😭 But honestly it started with small things for me. 🤍 Solo coffee runs. 🤍 Watching sunsets/sun rises. 🤍 Fresh sheets after a long day. 🤍 Buying myself flowers. 🤍 Pla
Bree | Faithfully Yours 🤍

Bree | Faithfully Yours 🤍

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How to Stop Caring & Start Creating Your Reality
Here’s the truth: The people you’re scared to disappoint… aren’t even thinking about you. While you’re stressing over how they feel, they’re out chasing their dreams. Let this be your sign to stop shrinking. ✨ You don’t need permission to be powerful. ✨ You don’t need support to start. ✨ An
Coach Felicia Carter

Coach Felicia Carter

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8 Ways to Outsmart Overthinking
These Japanese techniques offer holistic approaches to managing overthinking by promoting mindfulness, simplicity, and emotional awareness. Experiment with these practices to find what works best for you in quieting your mind and reducing overthinking. #StopOverthinking #MindfulnessMatters
Luna

Luna

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Life's purpose - have you found it?
Do you ever feel like there's more to life than what you're currently doing? Many of us find ourselves on a quest to discover our life's purpose. It's like searching for a missing puzzle piece that completes the picture of our existence. The journey begins with self-reflection. S
Kelly Ann

Kelly Ann

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How I "Hacked" My Brain for Positivity!
Did you know your brain can't tell the difference between imagination & reality? The way you think shapes your reality. Here's how I rewired my brain for positive thinking— without fake or toxic positivity. Try these strategies & watch your mindset shift! #MindsetShift #Pos
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withlovefromchelle

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5 ways to stop overthinking and start living
overthinking SUCKS! if you're a chronic overthinker like me, here's my best advice on how to manage it all. it's truly a mental block that can leave you feeling so stuck, but with some conscious effort, you can get it under control! #lemon8partner #positiveenergy #overthinking
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alexa vicktoria

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life is too short to waste energy on nonsense.
#calm #staycalm #mood #selfimprovement #selfgrowth
ClaraCocoa

ClaraCocoa

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Ways to get your life in order! 📋💕
baby steps still move you forward. 💗 Remind yourself that this is the life you want and overtime these little things will make a big difference to your mental health and everyday life. #selfcare #selfimprovement #howto #glowup #lifestyle #lifehacksง่ายๆ #mentalhealth #Lemon8
Sally⚡️

Sally⚡️

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show up for yourself as often as you’re afraid of being perceived 🫵🏻 #peoplepleasing #socialanxiety #gymanxiety #fearofbeingpercieved #selfsabotage
BuffUnicorn

BuffUnicorn

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Changing my mindset ❤️‍🩹
As someone who battled with depression, su1c**^ thoughts, severe anxiety and eating disorders since 8 years old, i’ve learned that your mindset is the number one thing you need to change in order to heal yourself. It’s not easy. It’s a constant battle of reframing your own thoughts, fighting wit
mell

mell

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How to Stop Worrying About What Others Think
Stop worrying about what others think—it's vital for your well-being and growth. Focus on your values, goals, and self-acceptance. These tips will help you find fulfillment and authenticity. Embrace your uniqueness and trust in your own judgment. By prioritizing your inner voice over externa
Milaidy🫧🌺🍕

Milaidy🫧🌺🍕

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Don’t stop Sis!
stopping prayer can lead to a number of negative consequences, including: Loss of inner compass: You may lose your source of peace and discernment, and your ability to resist temptations. Atrophied faith: Your faith may weaken, and you may begin to doubt yourself. Poor decisions: You may be dece
NaeNae

NaeNae

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A dark image with the white text "stop gaslighting yourself" centered. The Lemon8 logo and username @tash.blackk are in the bottom left corner.
A light beige image defining gaslighting as emotional abuse that manipulates a victim into doubting their perceptions, memories, and sanity. The Lemon8 logo and username @tash.blackk are at the bottom.
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Stop gaslighting yourself!
I am so guilty of using all these phrases before and it’s something I’m really working on to build my confidence🤍 #gaslighting #mentalhealing #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #mentalhealthawareness #validatefeelings #selfgrowth #selfgrowthjourney #shiftyourmindset
Natasha Black

Natasha Black

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5 Rules To A Happy Life.✨🤍
Wake up and embrace the power within you! Don't doubt your potential believe in yourself and take that first step. don't tell anyone what you're working on until it's done. a private life is a happy life. #positiveenergy #lemon8challenge #becomehappier #beyinspired #
Yasuan Vega

Yasuan Vega

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